Although our particular interest is for pegging I guess the question applies to all uses. Having tried a conventional strapon with plugs for the wearer and the Nexus, Feeldoe and Share we reckon there is still a long way to go to produce the perfect 'weapon'. The Feeldoe and Share come fairly close but even with a harness its too easy to loose clit stimulation because the saddle is too directly connected to the main dildo and many positions cause the saddle to be pulled away from the clit.
We have acquired a we-vibe to try in conjunction with the Feeldoe in the hope that the outside part of the we-vibe will keep pressing on the clit but are still not sure it's the right solution. Perhaps something like a pearl thong as part of the harness would solve the problem but do pearl thongs actually work as advertised or not?
We also reckon it would be good if the toy was moulded dual density so it had some stiffness in the shaft but was nice and soft to squeeze so it was filling but yielding while having enough 'sense of direction' for some decent thrusting.
Any suggestions would be gratefully received - meanwhile I'll go and have a lie down to recover from the thought :-)
I would quite like to be straddling my favoooooooooooooourite toy while giving her what for withv her fave toy. Why use a strap on l hear you say- well it's just that some of the bigger plugs mean you have to be relaxed.....and ou know......
Dea LH members there must be more of you out there with ideas what makes the perfect strap on.... but is it the item or the ambience of the occasion that makes it "perfect" l suspect the latter... Mrs T has just landed a brill paying job but means she will be on the road, Harlow, Nottingham, Manchester- the Universe...so l will have more time to write creatively in a few weeks time, any ideas will be incorporated.
I'm sorry not to have noticed the replies to my original post until now. I would like to post some sketches of my ideas here if possible - is there a way of posting them straight into here? If so can someone please tell me how.
One idea I have is that a double dildo like a share or feeldoe with a liquid core could give great 'connection' between the partners. If you tense up and squeeze your end of the dildo then it expands at the other end!
Hmmm you could add them as your profile pic but might be a bit small - perhaps an idea to list em on the photo blog because we have 36 odd of LH members on there and so you should get some helpful replies.
maybe you should consider an all-in-one strapon like the feeldoe that has a waist band of some sort that is connected to a raised section on the shaft for clitoral stimulation that is also used to apply constant upward pressure and hold the shaft in place?
maybe you could just stick a suction cup on it =P lol