Hi i cum way to fast sprays dont work help lol
Squeeze technique may work, when you feel like you are about to cum, squeeze just below the head of your penis until the feeling subsides. Then you are ready to go again.
I tries that and i blow my load still its only been happening since i hadmy testical removed like even if i wank a few pulls and i cum all over its not fair on my gf lol
Have you tried delay sprays or just old fashioned wanking a lot would slow you down 🙂
Yes wanking beforehand can make it last longer afterwards. I have this trouble so cum quick first time then have a 2nd longer go where I eventually cum again. Mrs enjoys a nice long session too.
You had a testical removed , how long ago ? Have you tried a cock ring ? Three things have helped me over the years , getting in better shape , thinking of something non sexual and practice , practice and more practice .
I wank loadsand i still can not last doesnt help that my gf is really tight its only veen happen8ng since i had my left testical removed how long do most men last i feel self conscious of how i look with 1 ball duno if me worrying is making me cum fast feels really senstive
About a year afo i didnt think it waa possible to cum so muxy looi feel like i look bad wity 1 ball
Just a thought - if you both enjoy lots of foreplay (including oral, fingerwork, toys etc - just for her if it is too much for you?) and if she climaxes first, do you need to last longer? Or can you both carry on pleasuring each other if you feel you've cum too soon? If you've finished she might still enjoy a massage and a vibrator? I'm not downplaying your concerns, but sex is better if you just enjoy each other rather than focussing on when anyone cums.
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About a year afo i didnt think it waa possible to cum so muxy looi feel like i look bad wity 1 ball
Ok so it’s a side issue, but, you can have a silicon or saline filled prosthetic testicle fitted. They come in a whole range of sizes and can be attached or free floating.
I only know this because I work on a cancer ward. We had a great laugh with the prosthetic testicle rep. He had a whole box of options to feel and consider the differences.
Anyway that aside, I agree with the masterbation suggestion. Come at least once before you start to play with your girlfriend. If your shy about this you can always do it in the shower before playtime. Just tell her you want to freshen up before play.
Like many others have said if you and your partner are enjoying foreplay and oral with her climaxing that may be what she enjoys, penetration is not everything. If it is just the pleasure of penetration for her what about using a strap on between? Until you are ready to use your cock again Also worth considering what positions you are enjoying. From behind doggy style or with my ankles over her head are generally tighter and therefore my man cums faster where as traditional missionary or laying face to face with my leg wrapped around him are more open and therefore last longer. Whatever you try good luck and I hope you find something which works for both of you.
Its just frustrating having a big willy butme not been able to use it i havnt made my gf orgasm with mycock since op how long do most men last coz ive always cum in under ten mins but that was fine some times im cuming before i get it nice and hard how is that even possible lol frustrated
Thanks i dont think it hurts that ive got a fat cock and my gf is really tight 2 fingers can be a struggle at times lol would any thing be able to stretch her pussy hole at all to see if that would help or will it not make a diffrence
Hi.
Sorry to hear about your trouble since your op. Was it very recent? There may be a re-adjustment period. Have you mentioned this issue to your doctor?
In any case, I agree with the other posts, with plenty of foreplay before or instead of penetration, with fingers, tounge, toys, etc. Whatever you both enjoy. Many ladies find an orgasm relaxes the muscles of the vagina to allow a bigger stretch, so this could be a win/win game for you both.
Positions like reverse cowgirl might be worth trying out for a change as well to see if some positions are less intense for you.
Hope this is helpful.
Hi,
In terms of delaying your climax, there’s a few ideas that you might consider, if you haven’t already:
An issue some, particularly uncircumcised guys have is that the foreskin is a really sensitive part, and it has a definite limit to how much it stretches. So if you’re girthy you may perhaps have a kind of fully stretched sensitive sleeve that’s stimulating you too much as it rolls up and down. A foreskin that doesn’t roll past the head easily is known as Pimosis, and it can be very mild or more extreme. If this is in some way affecting you, your GP can point you towards appropriate advice or treatments.
Delay creams and sprays are usually applied to the frenulum & foreskin. My understanding is that this part of the penis is a little like the female clitoris: basically essential for most guys’ climax. Other parts can aid & amplify the stimulation, but without stimulation here, climax is unlikely.
I find that cock-rings can kinda restrain the foreskin and stop it rolling around so much, so can really change the sensations for play.
It’s also worth bearing in mind that the testicles are very sensitive and changes post surgery may be throwing you off your game here. My wife has over time found ways to bring an orgasm forward through playing around in this area!
The first few inches of a penis are in my experience, alot of fun for many women, as the g-spot and clitoris are near the entrance to the vagina. You might find slower, teasing, shallower penetration, at least to begin with, could maybe help with slowing things down for you, as well as making your girlfriend’s pleasure your main focus. Perhaps you could include some toys to give the head of her clitoris some extra attention at the same time. It can help delay your climax if you have something to keep your mind occupied of course!
A crucial part of sexual stimulation is the mind, of course.
Anxiety about coming quickly is, weirdly, a trigger for coming really quickly. Taking pressure off yourself can help massively. Lots of the other posts have given great suggestions on this.
If you are used to masturbating to porn (hey, no judgement! Who hasn’t, right?) this can be a really effective way to overstimulate the mind and reinforce a pattern of behaviour that leads to reaching the point of no return really fast. This is particularly true now we’re able to search for select porn that shows us the really intense parts that turn us on the most. Slowing things down by masturbating in a less hurried setting, perhaps without intense visual/ mental stimulation, can help the mind & body relearn to enjoy pleasure in a less intense, hyper-stimulated way. Edging, to explore and understand your point of no return is worth spending some time on too, for you and your girlfriend if she’s game ;-)
If you do go over the edge, learn from it for the next time. You might well find small changes can make a difference, and different approaches can all be a lot of fun to try.
Good luck & enjoy yourselves!