Hello all,
Just an honest from the heart post.
My wife and I have chatted about same room sex and is has said she would be happy to do that in the right situation but no more than that. She said she is aroused by swinging type situations and we role play a bit but said she wouldn’t do it in reality.
So my question or rather some clarity is this as I have no one else I can talk to about this in person. If I happen to be in a busy supermarket for example I would say 1 out of every 2 women between 21 - 50 I feel a sexual attraction to and would love to have hot passionate sex with. Is anyone else the same? Male or Female? Something about the brand newness of it all which is a huge arousal point. Obviously thats impossible but thats how it is. My wife and I are pretty open about things and I have said this to her and she says that is not normal and somethings wrong with me. What do others think? Sometimes I feel pretty alone and feel like what is wrong with me. Is anyone else the same? Male or Female?
I don’t think I should have to feel this way and wont want to be around people who think anything sexual or any man who has sexual desire to another woman is dirt.
Another topic or some thoughts on something else I would appreciate some thoughts on is this.
I have had this my whole life and I am so sick and tired of being called derogatory terms or looked down on for being open about sexual things by men and women. Why does anything to do with a body part or anything sexwise cause others to totally trash them and call them a creep etc. I certainly do not go around complimenting women by saying they are sexy etc as know most times it wouldnt go down well nor would I have the confidence to do it anyhow.
Also even this, 3 days ago while out at a amusement park a good looking lady had a short skirt on and was on a ride and due to the position of the ride she was unable to cross her legs. I happened to notice and she happened to notice me notice. She looked very annoyed like I was some kind of creep and immediately put a jumper inbetween her legs. Same thing happened a couple of weeks ago when a woman with a low cut top of leaned over in front of me and she noticed that I noticed I could see a good view of her breasts in a bar that she got annoyed and put her hands over the top of her shirt to block the view. Not like I was leaning over with my tounge out or anything I just looked.
Why does it seem like anyone who talks about anything sexwise, or looks at something a woman is revealing ie like above called a creep or made to feel like dirt. Ofcourse there have been the odd times when this has happened and the lady has been flattered that obviously I found her attractive and if anything revealed a bit more. But for some women to go to the other extreme of calling you derogatory terms or giving you a very dirty looks, I just think why???
As woman if a man or woman checks out your breasts/butt etc how does this make you feel? flattered, not bothered or annoyed and think the guys a creep? or does it depend on if the guy is good looking? my wife said its quite flattering when a man or woman double takes her low cut top etc. However, some women get annoyed.