Anyone ever been into this kind of porn?
I have had my time when I was interested (still occasionally am), but for me I like legit stuff, if the "shemale" looks too much like a dude in drag then its a no-no for me!
J
Personally its never done it for me, although I do agree with ork the labelling of people has never sat right with me. They are all just normal people living their lives. Personally I am what people call a "bisexual" I enjoy men yes, I enjoy women yes but why do I have to be labelled for it.
If that's what you enjoy to watch enjoy it till your hearts content don't let the label scare you off be who are if people dont want to accept it then its their problem not yours :-)
To be fair ork has a point about the porn, its not just this "category" (if that's what porn has) which is all over acted and fake. Its all porn xx
i love Kink.coms site TSPussy Hunters. its pretty much my go to site for porn.
If we didn't label how would we explain. Would it be ' you know, one of those men who dress like women,have tits but still have a willy but may or may not want it removed and turned into lady bits'.
Plus there are that many labels for everything nowadays its hard enought to determine whether you are using the right one so I think more tolerance is needed than biting someone's head of for misplacement of correct term. Not every person has studied or has time to study every possible gender and I don't consider it rude at all. Maybe the people who give themselves all these different labels because they want to be different should accept themselves with a group label. Or for the normal everyday primate like myself straight, gay, both, bloke with tits, ex bloke, girl with fake dick. I can name any mechanical/electrical term you want but I'm not gonna bite someone's head off and think them ignorant for them not.
Oh and in answer to your question I'm not really into shemale porn but that's not to say I'm not into pegging porn. If that's the correct term as in birds with fake dicks fucking men who are straight
I have a thang for Bailey Jay :)
I agree with Ork, the term shemale is offensive to pretty much everyone who is not in porn. I think the correct term is transgendered or TS. Please correct me if I am wrong.
chylly fox wrote:
I have a thang for Bailey Jay :)
yes she/he is hot but their porn is boring. i dont have a favorite TS porn star from Kink.com but their porn is awesome!
Gotta say i do have a wee TS fantasy haha,
the only thing better than woman wearing a corest, knee high boots and a strap on,
is one wearing a corest wearing knee high boots and sporting a home grown penis ;)
Sorry but its not common sense to know. Gender description isn't something that is widely talked about in circles I move in. I don't tend to slip it into discussion whilst out in the pub with friends or even at work or the golf course. Common knowledge is coffee keeps you awake, you don't put diesel in an unleaded car, never mix grape and grain. The only way people will truly know correct gender assignment is through education. I'm sorry but I couldn't possible know every gender or label. It's not ignorance it's just to many different variations. You can have the same car but in 18 different variants and without studying you could possibly get yourself the wrong one. You can't get angry with someone for not knowing. Maybe you can accept they just don't know. I can't remember names of people I have met time and time again. I'm not being ignorant I'm just no good with names but I could tell you the registration numbers of all my friends cars. Just a thing I have done since being a kid that's stuck.
Labels do make sense but I couldn't tell you clothing labels by sight just the ones I know and buy regularly.
I'm a transvestite type person thing, I think that is the right label but I'm not entirely sure as my feelings towards hormones, implants, surgery .etc may change. Who knows, personally though if somebody called me a shemale I would at first be slightly flattered as that would mean I at least looked slightly feminine but I would be sure to correct them gently towards using some of the nicer terms for it.
In other news, I am a fan of all sorts of porn but if it involves TS/TV/CD's I feel I can relate to it more, even if it is all fake and fantasy it is still fun and is supposed to be enjoyed while pumping your way to a nice orgasm and probably not thought about in too much detail. Just enjoy it for the nonsense it is :)
As for Bailey Jay I am very much a fan of hers while also being slightly jealous of her body. She is incredibly sexy yet still well endowed. Now that's a kind of magic! hehe!
Oh and now I know shemale is offensive I have been educated and will now in future try not to upset a ts if I come face to face with one which I wouldn't possibly be able to tell because some of them are prettier than a lot of women I know. So what's with the 'ladyboy' label? Wrong or not?
Stuburns wrote:
Oh and now I know shemale is offensive I have been educated and will now in future try not to upset a ts if I come face to face with one which I wouldn't possibly be able to tell because some of them are prettier than a lot of women I know. So what's with the 'ladyboy' label? Wrong or not?
Ladyboy is the term used in Thailand to describe transexuals or transgendered. Trannys are transvestites. Shemale is transgendered or transexual male who has kept their genitals. It is extremely rude to use any of these terms unless someone uses them themselves. It's the same with African American people being called nigger.
There you go again Ork 'general society'. No it's not discussed in general society. Maybe the circles you move in but if I was to ask anyone in the general society I move in for correct terms then you may be shocked to know the 9.9/10 would not have a clue. Don't think it's down to porn it's down to simply not knowing. Maybe my sister in law knows (gay) and my best mates brother (also gay) and the circle they move in but my circle want to know where the next offshore wind is, if premium bonds are better choice than savings accounts, if I need to extend or go into the roof, you get the picture. Gender/label doesn't matter to a blind man
Despina, we are a little more educated in American/African. A lot more widely known and discussed issue through the past 60 or so years. Unless we have a Martin Luther king moment in gender issues then I'm afraid a lot more educating is needed and a little more tolerance given. People can be excused for wrong assignment.
It still wouldn't matter to a blind man because every time he would need an explanation. I also don't watch that sort of documentary I'm more a science and technology/ sports kind of guy and have very little time to fit much more tv into my life with work/taking my kids to activities/socialising/maintaining a house and generally enjoying this little bubble that I appear to be in. In general if I was talking to someone with a different gender I would label them by actual name(if I could remember it) rather than worry about if I had their correct gender and if talking about them to a friend it would still be by name.
Lola Mahou wrote:
I'm a transvestite type person thing, I think that is the right label but I'm not entirely sure as my feelings towards hormones, implants, surgery .etc may change. Who knows, personally though if somebody called me a shemale I would at first be slightly flattered as that would mean I at least looked slightly feminine but I would be sure to correct them gently towards using some of the nicer terms for it.
In other news, I am a fan of all sorts of porn but if it involves TS/TV/CD's I feel I can relate to it more, even if it is all fake and fantasy it is still fun and is supposed to be enjoyed while pumping your way to a nice orgasm and probably not thought about in too much detail. Just enjoy it for the nonsense it is :)
As for Bailey Jay I am very much a fan of hers while also being slightly jealous of her body. She is incredibly sexy yet still well endowed. Now that's a kind of magic! hehe!
I'm glad to know I didn't offend people with the term.
If anyone is offended I apologise, it was of course not my intention, I just didn't know the social protocol for description.
J
This is why I like being a part of this forum - if people genuinely don't know what the correct terms are for a certain situation, or whether or not they are going to/have already offended someone, then it's the kind of place you can actually ask without being judged.
If the circles you move in don't talk about these things, then I for one am glad to have a place people can ask these kind of things, and get an educated response from people actually in the know.
I hope this thread can be seen as educational, rather than offensive. Thanks for shedding light on what I think we can agree is a topic too often left un-touched.
Lovehoney - Lucy wrote:
This is why I like being a part of this forum - if people genuinely don't know what the correct terms are for a certain situation, or whether or not they are going to/have already offended someone, then it's the kind of place you can actually ask without being judged.
If the circles you move in don't talk about these things, then I for one am glad to have a place people can ask these kind of things, and get an educated response from people actually in the know.
I hope this thread can be seen as educational, rather than offensive. Thanks for shedding light on what I think we can agree is a topic too often left un-touched.
Lucy, just wanted to say I loved this post by you, and totally agree =)
Usually a polite word to educate I find helps instead of embarrassing with aggressive behaviour.