I’ve tried LH riding crop and a bookshop ruler to spank my partner’s (M) palms. The crop looks intimidating but doesn’t cause much sting. The wood ruler broke too. When I used a cane, that’s difficult to aim on palm.
If you are into palm spanking, what toys have you tried and tested?
Top of the legs is fun as well as bottom - but if you want to be mega kinky - hold his errect penis in 1 hand and using a 12 inch ruler spank the shaft - he husband loves it
Thin side of a firm/minimal flex paddle, metal ruler, short thin canes (although only use actual impact toys, not things like bamboo skewers or anything you can get from a garden store etc because they will break!).
When spanking no lube is needed - as a woman you need to be firm and tell him what to do - nothing gets my man harder when I tell him to pull down his pants and lay across the table - I then choose to spank him with or without his underwear- after a bottom spank if he is hard as a rock I fondle it a bit and hold it in one hand and spank the shaft a few times - but don’t spank the balls
@charene
Nice paddle - I hope that gives a good sting
With regards to underwater- my husband wears knickers and I like to spank him bare bottom as well as covered as he likes a good hard spank and I like to expose his very red bum once the spanking ends
I made a wooden version of this out of birch and it’s effective. Nice change up from paddle, flogger, or cane. Can’t say I have used it on palms but definitely thighs, butt, and breasts.