I have been trying to get my hubbie to spank me etc for a few months and he refused, however, messing around one evening in the garden with a 'Plastic Fly swatter', he playfully used it on me and then we took it to bed with us. Wow!!
I really liked the short quick pain from using the square end on my nipples and clit and then he used the handle on my Bottom and legs, but there was not enough pain I think as the plastic is quite flexable so could not get enough force behind it.
I do have a whip as I go horse riding so perhsp this will work, but was probably thinking perhaps a cane,Flogger or similar with give a similar quick sharp sting that then dissapears.
I have a few different floggers and when he spanks me with them it's like is that it. But they do have a purpose we use them more as a tickler teasing up to the spanking.
I have a few paddles too some are too noisy for us to use with the kids in the house but even so I am left wondering if he's spanked me. And often with the paddles he'll end up using the handle which does sting and has left marks for a few days. I do however love this paddle its quiet and vicious http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15747 and i highly recommend it
Crops are more precise in my opinion and i love the two I own I have one that's very stiff and sadly I didn't get it from here but I do have the lovehoney satin heart crop which is great because it's got two different sides and just adds to the teasing but feel it's a little flimsy when swinging it. But would do exactly what you want it for.
Finally my cane I got this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15828 as a gift and boy was i pleased with it. The sensation and pain I got from it is unlike any of the other items above and it's a delicious sensation and it is without a doubt my favourite thing to be spanked with. Leaves great marks and is more precise in where it lands.
I do have a high pain threshold and have been known to walk away bruised from a spanking session. But we enjoy having all our bits out as they all bring something and it's fun not knowing what's coming next For what you want I would try what you've already got and work out what you like from there I don't know if this helps...
I have a few different floggers and when he spanks me with them it's like is that it. But they do have a purpose we use them more as a tickler teasing up to the spanking.
I have a few paddles too some are too noisy for us to use with the kids in the house but even so I am left wondering if he's spanked me. And often with the paddles he'll end up using the handle which does sting and has left marks for a few days. I do however love this paddle its quiet and vicious http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15747 and i highly recommend it
Crops are more precise in my opinion and i love the two I own I have one that's very stiff and sadly I didn't get it from here but I do have the lovehoney satin heart crop which is great because it's got two different sides and just adds to the teasing but feel it's a little flimsy when swinging it. But would do exactly what you want it for.
Finally my cane I got this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15828 as a gift and boy was i pleased with it. The sensation and pain I got from it is unlike any of the other items above and it's a delicious sensation and it is without a doubt my favourite thing to be spanked with. Leaves great marks and is more precise in where it lands.
I do have a high pain threshold and have been known to walk away bruised from a spanking session. But we enjoy having all our bits out as they all bring something and it's fun not knowing what's coming next For what you want I would try what you've already got and work out what you like from there
They both have 2 different textures to them so you can either be more gentle with the satin side or a bit firmer with the leather side. They both give a nice sting and you can vary the pressure to go as firm as you like.
Floggers can feel amazing and can leave you 'floating' in Sub Space - but the user needs to be a bit more careful, as those ones with longer tails tails can wrap around your body, leaving painful marks. Its always best to aim for buttocks, thighs and shoulder blade areas.
A good starting flogger would be this one - its got medium length tails (so less chance of wrapping round arms and legs):