We have tried it and it does nothing for me but if hubby wants to and he enjoys it, i say leave hm be. its ot making uncomfortable or anything lol xx
I have to say i dont mind being tied up put spanking has never been my thing.
I love being spanked, but I hate if I'm on a night out and a random person slaps my ass for some reason.
Elliex, i dont see that as a fun sexy spanking . . thats harassment
My GF sometimes asks me to spank her when we're doing it doggie-style. TBH, I don't understand it but if it works for her, I'm happy to play along (besides, she's got a lovely bum).
i love being Spanked by my partner. got to be in the right mood but if i am its F**king amazing!
my partner once sneaked a riding crop into my bag when he was watching me have my lesson once and i snuck a spatular from the kitchin into my toybox.
i love the maks a good spanking leaves too. kaning hurts but the welts are beauitiful. i could look in the mirour at my bum after a good spanking for hours- i get so dissapointed when they go away
Dont fancy anything too painfull ...but am trying to introduce OH to giving me a light spanking when I'm wearing tight silky panties and or tights whilst I was rubbing myself through the shiny stretch material - preferably in the middle of a long session.
I'm clearly more unusual than I thought - I don't have to be in a particular mood to enjoy it, both from a giving & receiving point of view.
I do have limits though - one guy I met for a spanking completely ignored them & it felt more like an assault than something enjoyable.
I love spanking wasn't sure when a crop was first used years ago now I adore it.
Hi. For my sins I started waching the lovehoney tv show. Since I have watched it I have felt that I can approach my husband with things I would like to try (including spanking) part of the problem is I am disabled and in pain most of the time, hubby cant understand that I would want to be spanked when I am already in pain all the time. The weird think is, the only time I am not in pain is when I am having sex or foreplay with my husband. I was just wondering if there were any other disabled people out there who have any tips as I am not the most flexible but want to have a normal sex life (I am only in my 30's). If this is inappropriate then please delete but sometimes its lonely being young and disabled and I dont feel I can discuss with my doctor. Thanks for your time. xx
My OH loves being spanked wether its my hand, paddle or crop she loves it.
I wanna try tying her up and spanking her but i need to invest in some more rope.
Notjustamummy both me and my wife have our share of problems but this hasn't stopped us enjoying bdsm whether it's a light or heavy session.
I think the important thing is to find a comfortable position. This for me and the OH depends on how we're able to tolerate the everyday pain and how flexible we are. Just asked the wife and she's said either laid down on your tommy on a bed or couch with cushions to support where needed or knelt down and tommy on a couch again with cushions as needed.
There are more but I don't know how mobile you are. My advice would be to start with this then experiment. Things like doggy style but with your head on the floor or bed, bent over a table or simply standing up.
Hope that helps and happy spanking.
Case
Not got into spanking in a big way yet, but have discussed it and both have tried the odd slap on each other. The noise can be disconcerting with the windows open and/ or others in the house. By noise I mean paddle on bum, not squeals of pain/ pleasure. It probably will happen soon with better planning for unrestricted noise.
We are into spanking ,me receiving ,oh giving ,we now have a few toys,crop,spanker and flogger .
we find it great fun ,never thought I would but you never know till you try 😊 x
Strangly I would not let anywhere near my bum, thought it was a bit strage. But as time went by and more trust was built. Being spanked has become very pleasurable not just for me but for her also.
I think if it's for you, it's amazing, if it's not their are other things out their ;)
I love being spanked by my oh whether its his hand, a crop or the paddle turns me on especially when he puts me across his knee!
Definitely want to broach the subject of spanking him sometime 😁
I love a bit of spanking (and hair pulling) but have yet to convince my OH of the benefits of being tied up as he thinks he would find it far to exciting to have complete control and not last long enough to satisfy me so I am going to get him some delay spray and ask him again !! ;p
,notjustamummy.... From a " naughty mum", it is not totally without a Reason. Pain and pleasure are partners, and one can trigger the other.
Did you see that embarrassing bodies episode, where that gorgouse muscular hunk of a doctor Dr Christian, was wired up for some tests about pain, and how to overcome it.
Things like nice smells increases your pain threshold, but the best on was him sswearing like a cockney sailor!
So replacing one pain with another could make it actually better for you.
Go for it😆
" A little bit of pain never hurt anybody..."
Love this thread, but we're just not into it tried it ,we just fell about laughing. Don't get me wrong like all the other differences in male and female bodies , I really get how a woman buttocks are so sexy especially when being made to move , I love how soft and smooth they are. Also ladies get over them wobbling they are meant too, when doing doggystyle that amazing little wobble you getting when you push in fast is just so horny. Sorry men don't want( in my opinion) a firm muscley lady butt. I wish woman could get over the confidence issue of what they think are big bums. When my OH dresses up to go out we have the partners routine of" do I look ok in this" my reply" no , you make it look stunning". Then we do " does it make my bum look big?". To which I reply" yes and don't change it". Then I get told your biased and see it through rose tinted glasses. So why ask?
One question why in most porn clips do the women get their bums spanked before anal?