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Hello,

Newbie here!

The reason I have joined here is I am in a long term relationship and recently we were seperated for nearly a month due to work. While away my OH got completly paranoid that I would be playing away. When we talked about it the next day when things had settled down he said to me I wouldnt blame you as I know how horny you get!! ME?? I didnt even realise I was a little horn monster!! But when I think about it I do like to turn up the kink factor and maybe he is not used to that!!

Anyhow my reason for posting is I want to plan a surprise weekend for him, something different for a Friday, saturday and sunday night. I have a few ideas but would love some suggestions;

So far I am thinking for one night a nurse outfit as when I have looked at what naughties hes been looking at on the net - nurse / patient porn seems to be the top of the list! Any ideas on scenarios to play out?

Another night I was thinking about introducing some light bondage (not something we have ventured into before) just some restraints and blindfold nothing to hardcore! I would like to be the restrained! What could I say to him to get him in the right idea!

For the third night I am drawing a blank so far! Needs to be something different, we already actively use vibrators in our relationship!

Anyway been reading the other threads, happy to be here, seems like a good crowd!

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tonih1red wrote:

Hello,

Newbie here!

The reason I have joined here is I am in a long term relationship and recently we were seperated for nearly a month due to work. While away my OH got completly paranoid that I would be playing away. When we talked about it the next day when things had settled down he said to me I wouldnt blame you as I know how horny you get!! ME?? I didnt even realise I was a little horn monster!! But when I think about it I do like to turn up the kink factor and maybe he is not used to that!!

Anyhow my reason for posting is I want to plan a surprise weekend for him, something different for a Friday, saturday and sunday night. I have a few ideas but would love some suggestions;

So far I am thinking for one night a nurse outfit as when I have looked at what naughties hes been looking at on the net - nurse / patient porn seems to be the top of the list! Any ideas on scenarios to play out?

Another night I was thinking about introducing some light bondage (not something we have ventured into before) just some restraints and blindfold nothing to hardcore! I would like to be the restrained! What could I say to him to get him in the right idea!

For the third night I am drawing a blank so far! Needs to be something different, we already actively use vibrators in our relationship!

Anyway been reading the other threads, happy to be here, seems like a good crowd!

Hello and welcome!

Can't stop long, revising like mad here but just a quick post (the others will give you loads of fab advice I'm sure!).

When it comes to light bondage it depends on whether you think he'd been keen on the idea? If he would, getting some lovely bondage boutique things from LH might be a good idea - a feather tickler perhaps http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15809 or some cuffs http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17102

If you think he might be a little more unsure of the idea, maybe just using what you have to hand would be better, a pair of stockings as wrist restraints might work and using something to hand as a blindfold.

As for the third night....what about sensory play?

Blindfolding you man and using various household objects to strong and tease him...be creative...clean make up brushes work well, your hair, your breath, a feather etc. etc.

It sounds simple but it feels amazing!

It's great to build up and up and up and eventually just slide down onto his cock

Good luck :)

Axx

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We own a few costumes and we thoroughly enjoy them however we don't act out any role playing scenarios so I can't help you out there. For costumes why not treat him to a present?

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=10597

As for the light bondage I would really recommend this product.

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2444

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Ooh found some better cuffs

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15722

Ax

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why not just have one night, the last night as just good old romantic sex :-)

youve done naughty and kinky for 2 nights, i think it be nice to go for the old romantic bit for the last night togther!

"make love!"

*pukey smiley, as hate that term*

Dxx

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diamonds wrote:

why not just have one night, the last night as just good old romantic sex :-)

youve done naughty and kinky for 2 nights, i think it be nice to go for the old romantic bit for the last night togther!

"make love!"

*pukey smiley, as hate that term*

Dxx

That's a great idea - a nice meal and relaxing evening of good old fashioned smooching and snuggles. :D

Hope you have a wicked weekend, sounds great! ;)

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Hi and welcome to the forums.

You will find lots of ideas on here.

How about this for your bondage http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16308 My OH and I love it!

Or what about a game to play? Manogomy seems to be the favourite amongst members. I have yet to try it but was sent http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=18605 to review and my OH and I had a great time with it. Something different to do. I had no idea how to play poker but loosing was great fun!