And i dont mean cooking!!
Been with my fella for almost 2yrs, we're very close and the sex is still great but its getting a bit routine... any ideas to spice things up??
All depends what your in too . For my fella's 30th I brought us a box of tricks & I got dressed up & I was his present he had to unwrap me & if could use whatever he wanted on me that was in the box . After all it was his birthday
First things first.. Welcome to the forum :D
Second thing, speak to your (the fella) about what your mutual likes and dislikes or willing to tries are! This will give you more of a chance of finding something that you'll both like! Or better yet, browse the site together!
There are plenty ways to spice up a sex life. Just from general toy use, to BDSM.
Here are a few links that what come in handy:
If you're looking to spice things up with anal sex, this link would be worth a look at!
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/beginners-anal-toys/
Bondage is always a great way to spice things up so you should certainly check that part of the site out!
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15124 - Would be a non-threatening product to start bondage and of course, have fun too with the game as well as the 'game'.
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16308 - This, like the last is not threatening, and of course it has great reviews (always check these before purchasing to get the personal views of buyers).
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13890 - Bondage has many different ways of restraining people and this uses a different system than the last two, less chance of getting in a knot!
Of course there are bigger 'bundles' of items within the specific area of sex toys, however they are more expensive and may (to some) be more threatening than the basic ones. For example http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19289 is a little more expensive, however contains a bigger range of BDSM items. Plus they're purple? What's not to love right?
There are always toys you could use together, not just vibes for you and nothing for him. There are plenty male and couple sex toys on the market. For example, http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20525 would be great during intercourse, or even just to tease him a little. The possibilities are endless with the range of sex toys LoveHoney has to offer. Check out this link: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/sex-toys-for-couples/ for more sex toys for couples.
Now of course we're onto the essentials, lube.. Lube and more Lube! It can be better than you might expect! Even for just giving handjobs, or recieveing something yourself. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex/lubricants/ Is where you want to be. Obviously if you're going to spice things up with say, anal play. Anal lube is a must have! I would personally recommend http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13085, also the same product in a bigger bottle http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13084.
If you need any help, or have any questions... Or just want to chat, the LoveHoney forums are the place to be!
and again, welcome to the forums.. Have fun! :D
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Get on a website like www.rawgonzo.com and have a look together and see what stirs ur fancy.