It’s been really difficult recently with covid-19 and both working shifts and having a young family with zero support network - and we’re sometimes struggling to “make time” for sex.
Admittedly we don’t do it as often as perhaps we used to when we had no one to sort out but ourselves, but some months its less than before we used to live together!
OH has had health issues which we’ve worked around and I’ve had a few ailments which always seem to clash or come at different times so the lovin’ gets pushed back a week or so to when we’re both up for it.
When we do get chance it is pretty damn good! I’m an evening person after a shower, a chill and some cuddles but he’s usually starting to get knackered by then. For him its day time or morning (handy when you’re both off shift but otherwise awkward).
We don’t get chance to go away much - although did manage it last month in a hot tub and a cottage overnight or have time where work isn’t on the horizon or family is getting “in the way” so to speak.
Any tips or advice on time of day or just slipping into it? I know he’d be all over me like a rash every night if we didn’t have “domestic stuff” but it isn’t that simple to put it all on the back burner and jump eachother’s bones!