Ok, So I had an idea, It may not be a good one, And please, If anyone dislikes, Dissaproves, Dissagrees, Hates, Is offended by or doesn't see the point in this thread, Please....
DON'T BE RUDE. ( I will report any rude posts or inflamatory posts, You have been warned! )
IGNORE THIS THREAD. ( If you do not, And do the above, I will do the above in brackets! )
* Hugs *
I don't have a problem as such with this, as a thread that is, I find the bit quoted a little bit intimidating to be honest, as in if someone dares to have an opinion that's different to yours, they will be reported and yet potentially can have a perfectly legitimate point of view? I most defnitely won't be rude, that's not my nature, however I do have an opinion which I wish to express....
However despite the fact that you may choose to report me, I still wish to say that I think this thread is potentially devisive for the forum, or could then lead to other devisive threads, singles only, married but looking, divorced, lesbian, gay, mothers, etc etc, you get my drift, none of which make for a particularly inclusive community.
I have been a member here for a while and never noticed a problem with couples before and there have been a few, I don't think there are that many more now, but of late, it does seem as if, if you're not a couple on here then somehow you're not in the "in crowd" as such, and that doesn't seem right to me, but hey as I've said, just my opinion, although I suspect that by a few posts I have seen I may not be the only one with this opinion.
As you say, I don't have to come in here, but inevitably, people like to nosey in the most recently posted in threads. I thought we had the good morning etc thread for general chit-chat type stuff? And yes I know you've put it in off topic, and as I said right at the beginning I don't have a problem, I just won't come in here, I'm just concerned of late, at how divided the forum seems to be getting, or how I personally perceive it to be.
Just my opinion that's all...
* Slumps into corner and gives up *
I'n not gonna report you hun, I'm myself getting fed up with getting grief every which way I turn just for being coupl'y! recently.
I didn't mean any offence or any intimidating intent by my initial post.
It was merely a 'Get off my back if you're going to keep winging at us couples for just being happy' - Not you personally I may add ;)
I know it isn't everyones cup of tea and thats fine, However, This IS off topic. And being a sextoy shop/forum, If there are couples on here, they no doupt are doing it for all te right reasons - ie, Getting closer again, Finding that lost spark etc...
Yes, Jade may be in the other room or whatever, ut sometimes it is nice imo to contrabute to the site as a couple.
There are disscussions/threads on swinging, Threesomes or moresomes etc etc, So why not this thread?
It's not like a thread thats saying ' The Couples Lounge - Where we all swap numbers/photos etc '
It was mearly intended as a little corner of the OA where us couples could be free to express our feelings/emotions without being put down or complained about.
Is that too much to ask???
Oh well, It seems that lately no matter how hard I try to be a positive and contributing member, I am obviously going wrong somewhere, What with the digs from all angels lately, I don't know why I bother!
So go ahead mods, Please delete this thread.