I feel like im falling in love way too soon :/ I know its only lust but i just keep thinking I love him. I do wish the sex was a bit spicier though as hes quite inexperienced compared to me. But time will fix that :D Hes just so perfect for me and I keep pushing him away because having such strong feelings makes me feel vulnerable :/
Great idea for a thread by the way. Im sure I will use it a lot :) xx
Tbh I thought that myself.When a relationship ends both parties tend to be on the rebound for a while making them vulnerable as emotions and feelings will be up in the air,
But I think you are being sensible by keeping a lid on it at the moment .In time I think you will fall in love again and with this guy.
The girl I got engaged to as mention in my post in this thread got me when I was on the rebound and I think I got a lucky escape .
I feel like im falling in love way too soon :/ I know its only lust but i just keep thinking I love him. I do wish the sex was a bit spicier though as hes quite inexperienced compared to me. But time will fix that :D Hes just so perfect for me and I keep pushing him away because having such strong feelings makes me feel vulnerable :/
Great idea for a thread by the way. Im sure I will use it a lot :) xx
Tbh I thought that myself.When a relationship ends both parties tend to be on the rebound for a while making them vulnerable as emotions and feelings will be up in the air,
But I think you are being sensible by keeping a lid on it at the moment .In time I think you will fall in love again and with this guy.
Thank you Mysteron. You are absolutely right. Im sure part of me is projecting my previous feelings onto him instead. Hopefully after I have given it some time I can tell him I love him with the clarity that it is truly how I feel x
I went on holiday with my fella and our children and he ended it when we came back. I basically have scared him off as I'm mid thirties and know what I want, he makes me happier than I have been, we get on so well and it's the best sex of my life! I want to get married (not right away or anything but eventually) but he's concluded that after his last marriage he doesn't think he can ever get married and so he ended it. Our children haven't seen each other since other than once on FaceTime.
We still text a lot and are still sleeping together, if you were to read our messages you would think that we are still together. We were meant to go out for drinks yesterday but he had to cancel as he was really ill. It's not the typical FWB relationship, it's like what we had before just not with the same intensity or our children being involved. (we don't have kids together but they all get on really well too) I miss him so much and when my kids are with their Dad I'm so lonely.
I have recently been suffering with depression and anxiety and since we split the Dr has doubled my dose. I just feel so low.
My work has dried up too and next month I can't really afford to live next month and my ex husband doesn't pay any maintenance and hasn't helped with the mortgage since he left.
Wow that is a bit of a shocker .I thought everything was hunky dory reading your posts. I wish you well and hopefully you can pick things up .
I really hate that bitch. Things were fraught for the first 2 or 3 years but had really settled down recently. Then she sent me a nasty email Friday and restarts the nastiness :(
I really wish she would disappear out of my life but unfortunately that's not going to happen atm.
I often feel like I am never ever going to like sex and that all this is worthless. I sometimes even wonder if it's worth keeping on living like this. The thought of "you let someone take away your life and hapinness and your never going to get it back" it depressing.
My depression, agoraphobia, anxiety makes me feel like I'm going insane. I'm scared I'll never get better
Thanks sweetie 😙 As for the lass making your life he'll cut her out your life. Block her on every account/phone/device you own. You don't need nastiness in your life so get rid 😙💜xx
There is always hope you can get better lovely xx
My depression, agoraphobia, anxiety makes me feel like I'm going insane. I'm scared I'll never get better
Thanks sweetie 😙 As for the lass making your life he'll cut her out your life. Block her on every account/phone/device you own. You don't need nastiness in your life so get rid 😙💜xx There is always hope you can get better lovely xx
Sadly I can't atm. She's my daughter's step mother. We've had a fraught relationship, but things were on an even keel until Friday. But I am seriously thinking of blocking her email...how dare she!! I really wish I could get rid of her forever!! (not in a murder way I hasten to add lol)