I really feel weird in my family... My sister finished uni like 6 months ago, has no job, had very expensive wedding, new phone, laptop, camera, and like 4 tattoos on both arms. But when I say I dont agree with it, its brought up that I studied in UK and that I costed my parents more. I admit it may be the truth, but after uni I was earning my own money about 2 weeks after getting out, even if it was shitty pay, long hours. But I did it. Even if it meant I had no money for meat, I just did it.
Now when I visit my parents, my sister even has stupid comments that maybe I can do something, because I am soo rarely at home, while she does it all the time. I am not the one living off my parents! I earn my own way in life and if I come to stay over once a month, why I should serve my sister, who does not work, everytime I see her, she is at her PC, on FB and playing games?
And before her wedding I was told to be absolutely quiet, when its normal I go to sleep, she has lights on, playing games till 3 am... But if I bring it up, I am the bad one. She sleeps badly, even if she goes to bed 8pm, when I cannot do anything in the room, she gets up at 10am...
And its normal that if she has to get up early, she wokes me up...and I am not even able to raise my voice, because she is sooo sensitive. On her wedding day she woke me up at 5, because she had nothing prepared and was slamming every single wardrobe door. Not to mention, she snoozed the alarm 3 times.
But hey who cares. She goes to bed sometimes 8pm, gets up 10am, and then hit the bed for all afternoon after lunch.
I just feel weird, that I dont like this. And it has nothing to do with just money... Oooh well. I guess I get ready to supporting her from my tax money. Because she is planning her family next year, and not sure how she will do it without job, and any savings... I guess parents, lets pay for it.