Me and my girl recently started to talk about our fantasies. I always had fantasy about giving my girl MMF threesome and DP experience because she loves DP with me and Toy. Just few days ago she told me that she fantasize about threesome with me and other random guy doing her rough forced sex and Just to get completely fu…ed. I asked her if she wants to try but she says she will never do it in real life!!
But at the same time I feel like she is giving me a signal for me to organize for wild sex!
By all means, keep discussing it with her. It might be that she would like to try but has some specific reservations that you can reassure her about or work around. However, it is equally possible for it just to be a fantasy; a lot of people have fantasies about things they would never actually want to do.
I’ve had similar conversations with my partner. We both love the idea of a threesome but when it comes to finding a third, deciding what will be off-limits, working out if it’ll be MFM or FMF, and trying to limit any jealousy - it all became too overwhelming so we left it in the fantasy world.
If it’s a no, then it’s a no … but if you share her fantasy, by all means keep your ear to the ground. It may never happen, or it could take a Perfect Storm (just the right timing/place/3rd person) for it to just happen spontaneously. But if you push it, then it will ruin the experience for you both.
Haha yes fantasies and real life are quite different experiences so you’d defo want to make sure she’d want to do this before springing a surprise on her as could backfire awkwardly
The fantasy will be perfect, and ideal for you two to explore in the bedroom in terms of role play and added toys. It could be a REAL turn on for the both of you.
Actually doing the fantasy in real life probably wouldn’t live up to what’s in her head and what she has imagined.
I don’t think she is giving you signals to organise. I have fantasies that I would never actually want to act out. I enjoy them being in my head where my imagination can run wild.
Keep talking about it and she may at some point agree but please remember consent. If she’s said no, she means no.
Could you possibly watch porn that has the kind of threesome in it that she wants. I’m not saying that it will change her mind but may possibly get the juices flowing
You could role play the type of rough sex she wants to fulfil part of that fantasy, and if she fantasises about being taken by 2 men at the same, she may be open to having a toy in one hole while you’re in the other. You could even have a threesome showing on a TV in the room.
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Hi there! If I could offer a little input. Maybe I’m working but it sounds like this is a relatively newly discussed revelation? If so give it some time to play out. I’ve had two fantasies of using a strap on on my hubby and giving him a complete golden shower. I’ve learned through the years the strap on will NEVER happen while the other has evolved to being ok from the waste down. Continue to communicate but accept it if she’s not into it!
I’d say the clue was in her use of the word ‘Never’.
Any sense of you pushing for it to become reality will guarantee that sticks to being never. If - and it’s a big if - she ever changes her mind then you can rest assured she’ll let you know.
Nothing puts people off potential new activities more than someone confusing fantasy with reality and pushing for the latter. In my youth I’ve been there, done that - and massively failed to get the T-shirt on each occasion.
