dont do what your not your not totally happy with,it could lead to serious problems in the relationship.most guys seem to think it is the norm for their wife or partner to want some strangers cock.that does not work.be careful dont do what you dont feel happy with just to please your man.it could all end in tears.unless you both want the same and know that neither would be jealous.we have tried it but never followed on.but it did not spoil our relationship just stop when you feel the time is right.all i did was give the guys a handjob.while my hubby was present after we had done it all.