Hi my wife and I have definitely decided to have a ffm threesome . Any advice on where to start looking for a partner .
We don’t want to go to a club or anything like that
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There are certain sites available (that we have used) that will certainly help you reach your goal if clubs is not your chosen path
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If you’re not keen on clubs then you have two choices - real world or online.
Now the odds of you stumbling into someone looking for a threesome with a couple in the supermarket, high St or any other vanilla Place are slim to none. You may get lucky in a bar but how do you start the conversation with a woman you don’t know? You could of course approach someone you already know personally but again what are the odds they’re looking for a threesome and you also have the potential impact on the existing relationship to deal with afterwards should anything happen.
Then there’s online. There’s no end of online hook up sites, some better than others. The downsides to online a solution are plentiful. Many sites are full of fake profiles - men pretending to be women, women pretending to be someone they’re not (older/younger for example), many use stolen photos to catfish people and its a hard old slog sorting the real folk from the fake. Add that it takes a long time to get engaged in a decent level of conversation and that even if you succeed you’ll probably need to meet socially face to face before anything happens and you may then find any attraction isn’t there and nothing happens - you’ll need to invest a lot of time and it’ll often be for no result.
Then there’s clubs. The thing you say you don’t want to do.
In a swinging club environment you’re somewhere where others are looking for the same thing - sexual interaction with others. So that cuts out the question of broaching the subject, the issue potentially approaching someone who would never consider the idea and also removes any concerns about someone being fake, not looking how they appear online or claiming to be in your area when they’re the other side of the world. You’ll have the chance to chat, decide if there’s attraction and interest and potentially crack straight on with your desired threesome, all whilst remaining under no obligation to do anything at all times.
I know which option I’d choose. But then I’ve done all three. And I can tell you now, the first rarely works, the second does if you approach it the right way and have a lot of patience, and the third? Works pretty much every time.
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Maybe try looking to see if there’s any specialist hookup sites for this 
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Me and my partner are now discussing joining the scene and want to find another female to join us, Could you recommend any sites and ones to avoid please, there’s so many and we keep reading that people are finding out most ads are fake