Heading for a relaxing week away at the end of the month with my man, need some tips and advice on how to spice things up and surprise him? Sex toys? Games? Im new to all of this, help!
The first thing I'd suggest getting is something hot to wear. Maybe try going for something that you don't normally wear or go the whole hog with matching bra and pants, seamed stockings and a suspended belt? I've got the casmira babydoll and it's gorgeous, so I'd recommend that range. Here are a few ideas to get you started:
Bra and pants set: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32193
Babydoll: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32427
Sexy sleepwear: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32769
Skirted thong: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29319
Stockings: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14241
If you fancied trying some (very light) bondage you could always get satin ties, which are fun, but not intimidating at all, and a small blindfold:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21799
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30717
I absolutely love massage candles so that's something pretty tame but definitely fun. I've tried this set and loved it:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28678
I also have these massage rocks:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28692 I really enjoy using them and they work well with a candle. Both the massage oil and candle kit and the rocks are in the 3 for £25 deal.
As for toys, you may like to try a cock ring, it's the easiest toy to use together. I have the Tracey cox one and I think it's definitely worth paying a bit extra for something rechargeable, but there are loads of rings in different price ranges on the site:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31172
I would absolutely recommend getting a bullet - they're amazing and they won't intimidate your guy if you're both new to all this. This fifty shades ones is my absolute favourite and it's rechargeable, but if you want something cheaper the Tracey Cox one has good reviews and I've never been disappointed by TC products:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30890
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14042
It may also be worth having a look at the 3 for £... offers - you can get a really good deal with them. And remember Lovehoney has a brilliant returns policy so you don't have to worry about wasting money if you don't like something. Let me know if you have any more specific questions and I'll do my best to help. Have fun!
Had a spa hotel break with my man just after Valentine's. I put on sexy lingerie before we went out to dinner (in front of him so it would be on his mind whilst out) when we got back we played http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=18610 It really is a great way to set up a steamy night of passion
Just as arrousing is no underwear, whether that's from the start or half way through passing him your knickers.
I find lingerie to be the best way to surprise my boyfriend, or even better, a sexy costume!
I surprised my OH at Christmas for the first time with some sexy lingerie. I've previously not bothered as he said he doesn't care what underwear I wear because "it will be coming off anyway" but I fancied something different and brought some new lingerie for Christmas. I wasn't sure how to reveal it to him so I also brought a basic blindfold and wrapped it up as a present. He opened it and was very curious. I said put it on and led him to the bedroom. I said his present was in the room and he had to feel his way around to find it. Needless to say he did and he loved it. Now I have a whole assortment of lingerie and its growing every day!
Ohh thanks for all the help! Definitley can muster up something sexy and surprising for him now!
All of the above is good.
Chocolate spray cream in a can is also good, get your man to lick it off you
Have fun ( I pity the people next door to you)
Chocolates spray cream? Like whipped cream but chocolate?! This sounds amazingly yummy!
If you haven't tried them already I'd absolutely suggest getting him a Tenga Egg! In fact, while you're at it make why not make it two Tenga Eggs? They're on offer and you certainly won't regret using them :) Also if your boyfriend isn't really into the idea of them (and he might because let's face it.. it's an egg designed for sexual pleasure.. what the?) you could always try and surprise him by blindfolding him and starting off with your hand before switching to the egg later. Succes garantueed ;)
Anchor chocolate spray cream, in the cream aisle.
Try a cream bra and thong.
Enjoy
I like the idea of handing over you knockers half way through the evening. Better still if you can manage to discretely wriggle out of them in front of him!
Also, maybe before leaving your room to go out, give him a litle teaser. Unzip him, give him a quick lick and suck til he's hard and then put him away again. It'll play on his mind all night and he'll be gagging to get back to finish it/you off!
I spoke to my boyfriend a few weeks before we were going away and asked him things he wanted to try. I made a mental note and after a long day in London he jumped in the shower and I . Put on a sexy outfit with stockings - he came out and I did everything he said he wanted to try!
It was so hot and he loved how I remembered everything. Have a fabulous time :)