Toy buying advice

Sex Tips & Talk
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Hello all

My OH has asked me to suprise her and buy her a new toy, we have used toys together for a couple of years now so it’s not our first.

I was wondering what either other couples on here use together that you’d suggest or what women here think are the best ones in their opinion for mind blowing orgasms

She prefers clit play with toys rather than say inserted as she likes to use them when I’m in her.

i was looking and the wand seems to get a good review? There’s one I see that doesn’t need plugging in which looks good.

Anyone used them before or have any other suggestions

Thanks in advance x

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If your wife enjoys clit play this little beauty hits THE spot, we love it

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36326

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Jon787878789999 wrote:

....She prefers clit play with toys rather than say inserted as she likes to use them when I’m in her.

i was looking and the wand seems to get a good review? There’s one I see that doesn’t need plugging in which looks good.

Anyone used them before or have any other suggestions

Thanks in advance x

I own a handful of handheld wands, wired and chargeable ones. There many ways you can reach her clit besides using wand. I like the one mentioned by Hampshirecouple which I find it effective. There are lots of them in LH under https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-vibrators/. Take a look at them.
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The Happy Rabbit Mini Ears https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=39953 is fun for couple or solo use. It's surprisingly powerful and not numbing like a wand can be.

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I love the wand and it’s my go to toy every time.

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If your looking for a wand (and it seems a great idea) this is my suggestion. https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=38977

Its powerful without being huge and your not going to run the battery flat! As it’s mains powered.

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BeeMine wrote:

The Happy Rabbit Mini Ears https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=39953 is fun for couple or solo use. It's surprisingly powerful and not numbing like a wand can be.

How do you mean numbing? Is it too strong/powerful?

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Fun Louise wrote:

If your looking for a wand (and it seems a great idea) this is my suggestion. https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=38977

Its powerful without being huge and your not going to run the battery flat! As it’s mains powered.

Hi.. I get the feeling from reading some stuff on here and a couple of replies that wands are very powerful? Do they take some getting used to? Because they don’t seem as - for want of a better word- discreet as other vibrators. Some things I’ve read say they give amazing orgasms some are suggesting they are a bit much 🤷‍♂️

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By the way thanks all for the replies 👌

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Jon787878789999 wrote:

Fun Louise wrote:

If your looking for a wand (and it seems a great idea) this is my suggestion. https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=38977

Its powerful without being huge and your not going to run the battery flat! As it’s mains powered.

Hi.. I get the feeling from reading some stuff on here and a couple of replies that wands are very powerful? Do they take some getting used to? Because they don’t seem as - for want of a better word- discreet as other vibrators. Some things I’ve read say they give amazing orgasms some are suggesting they are a bit much 🤷‍♂️

I didn't get on with the mains powered wand I've got, I found the stimulation too broad, the wand too heavy and awkward with the lead and the vibrations verging on uncomfortable. The one that did suit perfectly was the mantric rechargable wand https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37966, no lead but still powerful, soft feel silicone and a comfortable to hold curve. Once those issues were solved the broad stimulation was just as effective as my bullet but have a different feeling orgasm, I am very glad I got it. I think this would also be easier to use whilst you are in her as you won't have the cable to get in the way.

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AmyA wrote:

Jon787878789999 wrote:

Fun Louise wrote:

If your looking for a wand (and it seems a great idea) this is my suggestion. https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=38977

Its powerful without being huge and your not going to run the battery flat! As it’s mains powered.

Hi.. I get the feeling from reading some stuff on here and a couple of replies that wands are very powerful? Do they take some getting used to? Because they don’t seem as - for want of a better word- discreet as other vibrators. Some things I’ve read say they give amazing orgasms some are suggesting they are a bit much 🤷‍♂️

I didn't get on with the mains powered wand I've got, I found the stimulation too broad, the wand too heavy and awkward with the lead and the vibrations verging on uncomfortable. The one that did suit perfectly was the mantric rechargable wand https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37966, no lead but still powerful, soft feel silicone and a comfortable to hold curve. Once those issues were solved the broad stimulation was just as effective as my bullet but have a different feeling orgasm, I am very glad I got it. I think this would also be easier to use whilst you are in her as you won't have the cable to get in the way.

Thanks Amy

just one question... how do you mean different feeling orgasm?

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Hmm, bit difficult to explain, not necessarily more intense but somehow deeper, more satisfying, I don't usually find clit stimulation on its own that satisfying but this was more like a g-spot or blended orgasm. That's just my experience though.

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What's been her favourite toy so far?

The suction-style toys are brilliant (though a little pricey). They're a completely different experience to traditional vibrators and for a lot of people they can be a real game changer. 🙂 Though I should add that as every body is different people can have very different experiences from the same toy so there are no guarantees, but Mrs Chimp absolutely loves her Sona and the Womanizer Premium. 👍

Womanizer Premium (also available in red and white) https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=40149

As for wands we're similar to AmyA. Lots of people think the mains-powered Classic is fantastic but we're in the minority that find it a bit industrial (too big, too hot, too heavy), though I think if you did like it you could use it during even with the lead (deeper N G ing on position). The Mantric wand is our favourite at the moment. It's light, powerful, rumbly, has a good range of modes and intensities, and can easily be used during. All wands are more broad stimulation than precision so it depends on what her preference is.

Classic Wand (also available in black and metallic) https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20464

Mantric Wand https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37966

For precision toys I'd say something like a really powerful bullet upgrade. The forum favourites are the Desire Bullet (smooth but firm silicone, good battery run-time, lots of modes and patterns), the We-Vibe Tango (plastic but super rumbly, very good battery run-time, super intense), or the Matruc bullet (smooth and firm silicone, kicks ass, more affordable, shorter battery run-time).

Desire Bullet https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36366

We-Vibe Tango https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30320

And a few curve balls -

Mantric Pebble (like the bullet but a different shape so you can have flip between precision and broad stimulation) https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=39047

Red Hot Flickering Tongue (an unusual but very intense little thing) https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37758

Hope this sparks your imagination. 🙂

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Ian Chimp tried to write:

As for wands we're similar to AmyA. Lots of people think the mains-powered Classic is fantastic but we're in the minority that find it a bit industrial (too big, too hot, too heavy), though I think if you did like it you could use it during even with the lead (depending on position).

And I missed the link to the Mantric Bullet too -

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=39046

I suppose that's what happens when you try and join in when you're pissed. 🙂

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Some people like it heavy and others like it small. So it's really difficult to say which is the best. Look through the reviews and videos at LH. (But remember, you will not find a bad review especially written by a tester). The are so many reasons and no wonder I had a large collections. Many of them I put them aside after used once or twice. Of course if they are from LH you may return them but I feel it's just isn't right to do so. Buying the right toys can be challenging at times.

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4Uonly wrote:

Look through the reviews and videos at LH. (But remember, you will not find a bad review especially written by a tester).

Once again (as I've said in the other thread) that's simply not true. I've read plenty of frank reviews from testers.

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Ian Chimp wrote:

4Uonly wrote:

Look through the reviews and videos at LH. (But remember, you will not find a bad review especially written by a tester).

Once again (as I've said in the other thread) that's simply not true. I've read plenty of frank reviews from testers.

I've read and written low scoring reviews negatively commenting not just on how it works for a particular person but also build quality and these have been for testers and bought products, I'm always honest in my reviews, tester or not.

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AmyA wrote:

Ian Chimp wrote:

4Uonly wrote:

Look through the reviews and videos at LH. (But remember, you will not find a bad review especially written by a tester).

Once again (as I've said in the other thread) that's simply not true. I've read plenty of frank reviews from testers.

I've read and written low scoring reviews negatively commenting not just on how it works for a particular person but also build quality and these have been for testers and bought products, I'm always honest in my reviews, tester or not.

I have never been a tester but I generalise how reviews were handled (and with advice of discretion) so I chose to differ. I have written unfavourable review but it was not published. Not to mention where is the website.
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https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/off-topic/1785685-what-constitute-a-good-bad-reviews-for/ My opinion on good/bad reviews and discretion when buying any product based on reviews.

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I can't do a link but if you put Marvel Tongue in the search bar a pink flickering tongue toy will pop up.

This is a brilliant toy for clit stim whether or not you're inside her. But it's long enough with a big enough knob (for want of a better description!) to make it easy to hold. It also has a deep rumble not too far off the Tango's. The silicone stops it getting slippery, too (unlike the Tango).

I second Mr Chimp's Mantric bullet rec, too, but it's harder to hold during sex.

I love my Womanizer but after trying it during sex I gave up. It's too difficult to keep in contact to do the job.

I've tried wands but they're too broad and only numb me.