I've never really been in to porn that much (except guy on guy) and definitely not celebrities or randoms. If I'm going to fantasise I like the idea of its something that *could* happen even though I have no intention on acting on it.. Which puts me in an awkward position because that generally means it's sex acts involving someone we know... And I don't think hubby would appreciate it if I told him "oh yeah had a wank thinking about you sucking off your best mate" or something along those lines haha I mean, we've discussed certain aspects of those sorts of fantasies but the who what when and where aspects would make him unnecessarily uncomfortable as he's more timid than me when it comes to discussing sex (not doing it haha)
At the moment I'm pretty horny all the time so I pleasure myself every day when possible I've watched porn... Could a man giving oral sex and making her squirt... And fantasising that I'm the one who is receiving the pleasure... To a man mastrabating...imaginging he's pleasuring himself thinking of me.... Which is a real turn on the guys penis has to be big and girthy too.... Also another one is two women together imaging a full night of constant pleasure... But I do get horny thinking about my hubby one of the things I'm finding though is I'm incredibly horny if I wake up at say 2 or 3 am hubby is fast asleep the prospect of hubby possibly catching me is a real big turn on I try to be as still and quite as I can and if he turns over I slow down which leads to me getting almost there several times this creates some massive orgasims when eventually I get to the point of no return the last one two nights ago was I'd probably say the most intense one yet six times I got to almost there and my hubby would turn over stop snoring so I'd had to slow right down he eventually turned to face the opitsit way I built up speed again by this point I was so turned on at the thought of getting caught and even if he would have woken up there was no stopping the explosive orgasam that took place that night i had a massive wet patch where I'd squirted I was panting my body was wriggling as I came... I can honestly say I've never felt so turned on or squirted so hard in my life all I can say is it must have been the build up and the fact I had to make the minimal movement whilst also feeling like I could get caught.... My hubby never woke up either. I've fantasied about walking in on my hubby mastrabating and me then riding him. And also me tying him up blindfolding him to start with teasing him etc then whilst teasing him starting to arouse myself then leaving him tied up taking his blindfold off and then start to mastrabate in front of him and all he can do is watch until me occasionally stopping before I explode to taunt him with my Tonge.. Id really love to do it but I'm not sure how he'd react to it he likes to be in control
Try watching porn, but fantasising your other half is involved too - either actually in the scene or watching it with you while you play with each other.
Hot hot hot...
I fantacies about all sorts of people and places . Myself I have a similar problem as Knight1119 , I have a non participating partner . So I can use distant memories with her to fuel a good masterbation session . This is the ONLY place I feel free to share my fantacies . I often use people I know or have known . Several of my often used ones come from 40 years ago ! Several from women that I had some fun with between my two wives , a nine year gap . I feel that using anybody to help fuel a session is fine , from real life or possibly someone from a web site you use .
I watch and look at things and imagine transferring it it over to my OH of that makes sense