So I wore a blue dress, fish net crotch less tights and some black shoes. We went and had dinner on the way, didn’t eat much as super nervous.
When we arrived the bouncer said to my husband “u realise that this is a strip club”.
So we went in brought a drink and literally sat down and 2 stripper came over and started talking, which was very awkward as I’m thinking “I’m in a strip club give me a minute”
So we chilled and a couple more came over, no pole dancing was really happening.
Then a pole dance happened and we moved closer to the front. We decided that we would get a dance, and the 2 girls came over, so after a little deal, we got a dance with these 2 girls , who swapped over mid way through our one song, we had been taken into a private area.
So she started stripping in front of me, wasn’t watching husband, and comes up right in my face with her now naked boobs, and I’m thinking “what do I do now, how am I suppose to react to this” so I just smiled at her, then the other lady swapped and did the same.
I was quite happy as there was no touching them, but they did actually touch my boobs through my dress.
We then watched some more pole dancing, which is actually rather clever.
We decided to break our budget and as we were there get another dance. This time we chose just one lady and went in for a dance together. She was very sweet and checked that we were ok with different stuff.
So she started dancing and got naked and she had her boobs in my face, same thought in my head, and as she was dancing with my husband I was alright with it, nothing bad happened, anyway then it turned a bit like a porn movie and she starting playing with herself and licking her fingers and looking up with a sexy glance.
We then decided that it was time to go home. So after all that worrying it was generally alright and we would do it again.
Glad you enjoyed the experience ! 
@BL140505 Sounds like a positive experience. I love the idea of pushing through your comfort zone or initial nerves and experiencing new things together. 
Great idea an you’ve provided us with a little inspiration.
Good positive experience.
Well done for plucking up the courage
Well done for plucking the courage to go sounds like overall it was a fairly positive experience.did you enjoy yourself and would you happily do it again.
Fair play to you I wouldn’t think my mrs would go for that? Although I have been in a couple when on a stag do I wouldn’t and don’t take part by paying for a dance or to get them strip on a 1-1 for me It’s not my thing at all ! But we’ll done I am glad you enjoyed it 
Yay that sounds great! I’m wo glad you had a good experience and hopefully you have some great memories to look back on and talk about when you’re getting sexy 
@BL140505 . Im curious about the conversation that lead up to you visiting the strip club… was it your suggestion or a mutual desire.?
Glad you had a positive and fun experience! I’d love to do this one day with Mr FYEO. It’s certainly on the bucket list.
I did have some wine before we went out. I think if they hadn’t come over so quickly I may have been more chilled, but it was a good experience, and I did surprisingly enjoy myself. And yes we would go again. They all seemed quite surprised that we had been married for so long.
We both had the dances together, so nothing was secret. I wouldn’t allow a dance on his own and I wouldn’t want him to go on his own.
I think it all stems from going to Amsterdam,I would never have considered it before, it was a no no. But then we went to the burlesque show and it kinda stemmed from that. After discussing that my husband kinda found the website which had a 360 tour and then gave me time to think about it. We had plenty of discussions and he reassured me. There was still the option if I wasn’t happy we could leave.
It certainly a different experience. If your both happy and do it together and make sure you communicate, then do it.
Congratulations and so pleased you had a nice time 
It’s very true about pole dancing in that it be a strong skill to master and takes lots of training the core strength!
I’m also glad the ladies were considerate of you both and talkative unlike what you see in movies which can seem intimidatingly scary.
Well done you, fantastic and glad that you both enjoyed it.
It sounds like you had a lot of fun - well done you !
Sounds fantastic would you do it again or have a private dance by yourself
See my post strip club again.
We went last Friday night.
I know my reply is a bit late, but I really enjoyed reading about your experience! It sounds like you had an interesting time at the strip club, and I’m glad to hear that everything went well for you and your husband. It’s always good to try new things and step out of our comfort zones, and it sounds like you did just that. I hope you have more fun adventures in the future! While everyone’s preferences are different, based on your positive experience at the strip club, you might also enjoy the performance of edited by mod. They’re professionals in their field and known for their impressive and entertaining shows, so their performance would likely amaze you as well.