Some of you have seen the pictures of me wearing skirts, do you buy skirts thats a tight fit around your waist or so it's a bit loose but not so it would feel it would fall down?
I'm finding it hard to know whats right .
What I have been wearing in my pictures is size 12 and the other one is 12-14 those feel loose but not so I think it wall fall down.
It doesn't matter to me too much as it's home fun for now, maybe one day I will go outdoors but thats a big step.
Hey teacake
It really is a matter of personal preference, and the style of the skirt itself.
High-waisted skirts are usually designed to be worn on your belly button (or a little higher).
Regular waisted is usually for wearing in-line with your hip bones.
Low-rise, just above the pubic bone / just covering your butt crack :)
But really it's whateve YOU like the look and feel of. And you can wear your clothes slightly differently, depending on the finshed look you're aiming for on a particular day.
Personally, I don't give a rat's arse where it sits as long as it is comfortable, so what is the most comfortable style for you Mr Sweetcake? What style do you enjoy the most/ feel the most confident in?
Alicia4Ever wrote:
Women do tend to have a good bit of difference between waist size and hip size, more so than men, so it's the fact that hips are bigger, which keeps a skirt up; if it's a non stretch waist.
It's something I struggle with, as a trans woman; more especially as I'm carrying too much weight just above my hips, at the moment. I actually have big hips, i'm just too fat, so I have to go for skirts with an, elasticated waist.
I hope you have a good experience, if and when you go out in public, dressed as a woman. It helped my mood no end; but I'm a trans woman, and I had to do it, to get the life I need so badly. I know it's just for fun with you, but if you ever want any tips on going out in public, just ask.
Thank you so much for your input Alicia, at the moment the skirts i'm playing with do have a elasticated band, my problem at the moment is my weight I have lost so much due to problems in my relationship, I want to gain my weight so I don't want to get anything thats a too tight fit, I think maybe elastic maybe the way to go for now even though I really like this one:
It is true for me i'm just getting into skirts just for the fun side plus it's something different to try, mainly looking for shorter skirts so I can have fun flashing the bum and making upskirt shots!!!
Thanks Alicia I will be sure to ask you for tips if I do go out, I wouldn't find it to much of a embarrassment if it was out of my area, because I would be treating it more of a fun dressing up night than wanting to make myself look like a woman, but I have a feeling I wouldn't mind trying to go the whole way one time by buying a wig.
Lovehoney - Jess Wilde wrote:
Hey teacake
It really is a matter of personal preference, and the style of the skirt itself.
High-waisted skirts are usually designed to be worn on your belly button (or a little higher).
Regular waisted is usually for wearing in-line with your hip bones.
Low-rise, just above the pubic bone / just covering your butt crack :)
But really it's whateve YOU like the look and feel of. And you can wear your clothes slightly differently, depending on the finshed look you're aiming for on a particular day.
Thanks Jess I'm still trying to get the hang of mixing and matching things because I don't want to look too girly as thats not the look im trying to go for, so getting the right top to match the skirt is important for me, I have a nice amount of bodystockings that I think will go well with a short skirt.
Thanks for adding what types of skirts sit where on your body that helps. But you nailed it when you say it's what ever YOU like, I think so many people get hung up on what everyone should look like instead of going with what you want.
I guess I have always beena bit different I use to wear knee high boots bit like what goths wear when my mates looked all trendy with trainers, then i would frequently change my hair colour, My mates never got it.
Gosig wrote:
Personally, I don't give a rat's arse where it sits as long as it is comfortable, so what is the most comfortable style for you Mr Sweetcake? What style do you enjoy the most/ feel the most confident in?
Thanks Gosig I do like the name Sweetcake
At the moment I don't have a style that I would say is for me, accept I can say long skirts for me is really a no because I cant get away with the "accidental" flashing of the bum So all I can say my style can be anything as long as its short to have fun in. I don't mind if it's a Ruffle look or even plain, One style/look I like on women is Tartan so I would be happy to wear Tartan.
If i'm wearing skirts because of the just been worn scent fetish of mine than anything goes short long whatever because thats a different kink of mine.