My biggest turn on is spanking, it gets my pulse going and my lady bits tingling immediately! I love those shivers you get when something feels good!
But my biggest turn off...once upon a time I thought it was feet. Then it was definitely poor hygiene, especially of the trouser snake. And then I moved back in with my parents with my bf and realised there is literally nothing worse than my mother. Nothing.
My partner and I rarely got chance to connect when we lived there, but I remember one afternoon I had just climbed aboard when I heard my mother coming in the front door and she shouted something up to us that needed and answer. Just her voice and the image of her in my head for that split second - I have never felt my lust shrivel up and die so quickly.
Biggest turn on, being in love with the person. Biggest turn off, the number of sexual partners they've had( the more the bigger the turn off) / if they're in to casual none committed sex.
Biggest turn on is a strip tease involving lovely lingerie . I also like the idea of the OH going commando in summer when she is wearing a maxi dress.
Turnoffs - can't think of any other than being asked to participate in a 3 some .
Biggest turn on is a proper over the knee spanking for me .
Turnoffs are poor personal hygiene - I don't really think there's any excuse for this !
Turn on... when they have that personality that instantly gets you going, the way that bloke hugs and touches u ..
Turn off: poor hygiene and feet...
Being bent over, bare bottom given a good seeing to until it is bright red does it for me, even thinking about it.
Smoking is a huge turn off. Sounds hollier than thou considering I am an ex smoker.
Wildflower I 100% agree there with both points, but my poor OH is a little too soft to give me a proper spanking! He does try though, gotta love him for that!
Sassykitten I had an ex that literally, he had this smile and cockiness about him that would just make me melt into a puddle of 'take me now' 😍
Jimbo it's probably because you're an ex smoker that it puts you off so much! Smoking is a funny one for me, on most people it smells absolutely rotten, but on the occasional partner/fwb it smells and tastes amazing to me, it's so weird!
Turn ons are spanking, restraints, body confidence, biting, deep kisses.... I could go on 😂
Turn offs are definitely smoking and poor hygiene for me. Both make me feel nauseous
Biggest turn on is my man! He doesn't have to do anything. He makes me feel amazing. And I absolutely adore him. If he kisses my neck I melt.
Biggest turn off would be poor hygiene yuck yuck yuck
Biggest turn on would be getting a woman off.
Biggest turn off would be anything public. I'm a private person when it come to my sex life.
I have so many turnons! Other than my OH, my biggest turn on is definitely nylons and feet.
Turn off would be poor hygiene without doubt.
My biggest turn on is heels! Just love to see my OH in heels, especially in the bedroom! gives her an excuse to buy so many!!!
Ironically my biggest turn off is feet! I hate feet! Just think their so ugly and so unsexy!!! Yuk!!!
I had an ex that had a foot fetish, I used to jack him off with my feet. I always thought he would be into heels as well, but no, not fussed.
Feet do seem to be a popular put-off though!
biggest turn on would be a girl and her mother at same time....or my old science teacher lol
turn off...anything with pee/poo in it,..rape porn or anything violent,,,turns my stomach=(
Turn on for me is being held by my OH cuddled so I can feel his excitement in his pants, really does it for me. Oh and the smell of him streight out the shower or bath.
Turn offs for me. . . . Maybe his stubble when he has not shaved. Don't really have any with my OH I love him so much.
When my OH is fresh out the shower, smelling delicious, with a hard cock. Oh golly
Turns offs is for sure poor hygine. There's no excuse whatsoever and it turns my stomach just thinking about it!
Biggest turn on for me: was getting head by my ex girlfriend and another girl was watching!
Biggest turn off for me: a girl not willing try anything new or explore as i am outgoing!
Ooh something else that does it for me - bit of context, my OH is literally the nicest man in existence, he's so placid and friendly, it's impossible not to like him. But once in a blue moon something gets to him and he gets angry, last time was when he had ordered a piece of jewellery for me that was very special and the store had misplaced it, believed lost. When he gets angry, he looks and sounds much more masculine and dominant and ooft 😍 makes me weak at the knees!
Yeah there really is no excuse for poor hygiene, beyond me why anyone would go without a wash/shower/bath!
I think I'd be pretty disappointed too if my OH wasn't willing to try new things. There's some things I haven't managed to get him to try, but he's not completely closed off to new ideas.
nice one violet! :)
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