What cheered me up recently

The beautiful frosty, foggy scenery and spectacular Sunrises and Sunsets recently!


I beautiful text conversation with an old flame.

Totally platonic, but so much love.

Checking I was ok and telling how much I have helped him recently (I wasn’t aware I really had).

Seems this little Ladybird doesn’t crave male validation anymore, male friendship is wonderful however x


That is so nice to hear @The_Little_Ladybird it does not have to be just between the sheets. Enjoy the friendship, I hope you are doing well, looking after yourself and your son. Big hugs sent. :grin: :grin:


That’s great @The_Little_Ladybird :hugs::hugs::hugs:

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Sometimes a caring message from a friend does so much to help raise our spirits, and it costs nothing. :slightly_smiling_face:


Thanks all. He is someone I really respect and care about.
He knew me back when I was confident, free and full of life. He has been through something truly horrible and he said my faith in him has helped him to see himself differently.
Strange that we have been able to help eachother through our difficulties.


Sparrows in the winter sunshine.
They always seem so cheerful no matter how cold it gets


That looks stunning, even seeing the photos has made me smile :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

Beautiful :heart_eyes:

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Seeing the amount of fun things we have lined up for between now and the end of Feb. :smiley:


A silly thing but in the fanfic I’m writing, I included an avocado soft toy ages ago. Today in Morrisons supermarket, in the valentines section there was a little avocado soft toy :purple_heart: (I’ve not seen one before). It made me smile.

Even better? I was talking to my best friend - who knows about my fic - because I was offering to pick some other ones up for my godkids and she told me to grab the avocado and she’d treat me :purple_heart:

I love my lil avodude :avocado:


It cheers me up trying to help my forum friends, I’ve been going through a rough time for quite a while now, nothing going right and feeling very dejected, by trying to help, it makes me feel I’m making a small difference, on here people are so much kinder than people I physically see :slightly_smiling_face:


Gorgeous photos :heart_eyes:

Seeing its Greek week at Lidl

As anyone who has followed many of my postings knows , my wife is inactive for many years . Yesterday we actually were talking about sex and sexual things . I recently found out she self pleasures a bit more than I was aware and does watch a bit of porn . So I asked her if any particular porn she enjoys ? She mentioned a few types , then asked me what I liked . We talked toys and lubes for a while . I recently bought us each a WeVibe Egg2 and I told her my idea of controlling each other’s egg . She is heavy and does not want me to see her unless fully dressed , so with the app controlled we can be in different rooms or across the country . I send her similar photos to what I post here except without the cover ups . I did a video of me coming while using my egg where my cum was landing next to the camera below . She was excited to see the volume and multiple shots . Note we had the grandson move out a little before Christmas , so we once again have the house to ourselves . If she ever gets to have the procedure for her spinal stimulation our sex life might become active again !


Keeping :crossed_fingers::crossed_fingers::crossed_fingers: crossed for you @Oldman.
@Knight1119 I feel like that too,the forum is my go to nowadays because of the non judgemental people on here whom I have come to respect greatly,even though i wouldn’t recognise them from adam if i passed them int Street :rofl::rofl::rofl:
@The_Little_Ladybird you certainly don’t need male validation, you are you and seemingly have very quickly found yourself which to me says your previous relationship was holding you back!!!
Gotta love the forum :+1::+1::+1:


I really wish you both all the best @Oldman, I really hope your wife’s spinal stimulation is successful :crossed_fingers::slightly_smiling_face:

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@pootle it’s definitely mine too mate, the kind people on this forum are the very best, there is so much help, guidance and advice on many issues.:+1::slightly_smiling_face:

Had a good afternoon with the vehicle maintenance, for starters I’ve diagnosed the “horrible scraping noise” as the brake pads being worn to the metal backings on the wife’s car,so new discs and pads needed there​:man_facepalming:t2::man_facepalming:t2::man_facepalming:t2:
And i stripped and greased the rear shock absorber and linkages on my bike so they’re good for another 12 months :+1::+1:
Not a bad few hours all told :blush: