Just wanted to ask, are girly, girls or tomboy (outdooor /girls who arent afraid to get their hands dirty) more likely to be into fucking guys with strapons?
Not tempted me yet. But it takes all sorts. You can't predict it.
You'll know when she wakes you up with a friendly poke in the back.
Maybe either, I'd assume its more likely with a girl displaying dominant tendencies! (although I'll no doubt be corrected!)
I know my AdnaW is too sub to strapon me (not that I want it).
I wouldn't say there's a type, tbh... You never can tell what people are into by their personalities. I'm the bossiest most opinionated stubborn brat you're ever likely to meet -- but totally submissive in bed.
There's no way of knowing!
Well, my wife is a "respectable" looking, grey-haired little lady in her 50s. She in confident and runs her own business but I doubt anyone suspects she drives a mean big dildo when she wants. However, I am most grateful that she does 8-)
I don't know about the "type" of woman, I just think it's one of those things you either love the idea of or hate it, I can't imagine anyone being ambivalent about it.
I absolutely hate the idea of doing it, it would seem like I was totally emasculating my DH, but then again, I know he has no interest in it either, perhaps if the idea excited him, I would feel differently? I want to fuck him as a woman not as a fake man IYSWIM?
Don't get me wrong, I don't think the men who love it aren't "real" men or anything, it's just the way I feel about my husband, in my head, as it were. It would do absolutely nothing for me, I like giving up control, not taking it.
A good point - I think in a good relationship one gets driven more by what one knows the other likes and less by what we like ourselves. In fact I'm sure what one likes gets so mixed up with what the other likes that the edges of this get blurred. Turning my wife on really turns me on and (I hope) vice versa.
My previous post was really a response to spankmebaby's post 8-) We need that edit facility!
Doing something that you know your partner loves actually makes it more enjoyable for you I think. My best orgasms seem to come after I've spent a long time pleasuring him, seeing and hearing him so turned on really gets me going too - I've bought a super stoker for Valentines and I can't wait to use it on him.
I would also imagine that doing something to a partner that you like doing but they aren't really fussed / are just going along with it, would make it less enjoyable for you. We've tried anal play - I love being licked / fingered but he doesn't like having it done to him at all, which is fine, there's plenty of other stuff he does like - I would like him to enjoy it but he doesn't, so that's it unless he ever wants to try again.
After 28 years together it's pretty instinctive as to what we know each other likes.
Im game and id say im quite girly but tbh when a person is in the bedroom they can be quite different to how you see them on a daily basis and how you would expect them to be sexually. x
Although I've said this before on other threads I guess it's worth repeating - pegging seems to have this D/s, BDSM sort of a tag, possibly because the pornographers tend to portray it that way. But I don't really see that as an essential element at all.
Obviously it can be part of such role-play but equally it can be just a variation on a very conventional situation. Once you get beyond the mechanics of the thing it's not essentially very different to girl-on-top conventional sex, especially in the face-to-face position which seems to be a big favourite amongst many aficionados (or should that be orificeionados?)
well im quite a girly girl and this is one of my biggest fantasy's!
and the only reason i want to do it is, cos i want to know what its like to fuck someone, i want to feel like im the one in compeltle control cos im the one who can fuck the other.
and thats all its about, i dont even want to do it more then once, i just want to know what it feels like lol.
but its never gonna happen, sadly :(
and im normaly quite sub in bed so its not even cos im a rageing domernant type of person cos im not at all! lol its just wanting to put that knowing and feeling aside!
Dxx
I'm the sort of girl that loves to be utterly feminine, not necessarily everything pink you understand but I love dresses, heels, feeling feminine, sultry and seductive... elegant. I'm an overtly and openly sexual woman... assertive but not necessarily aggressive. I know what I want.. and I will get it.
I love taking 'men' with a strap-on. I say 'men' as My slave isn't really a man, too pathetic! Haha ;)
I adore the gender bender flip... almost mentally castrating the male and taking the cock upon Myself to penetrate them with... having them worship the very phallic sign that they treasure personally day to day and ramming them with it. See how they like it!
And, oh, they so do.
Love them begging for My 'cock' just like the stereotypical female slut.. and I combine this with feminisation/sissification to perfect the entire scenario/role reversal.
It's great fun!
xxx
it was myself out of me and my wife who wanted to try it first, she gave it a go more for my benefit but found herself enjoying it too as we were actually using it rather than talking about it
Hi Folks. I am looking for some advice about strap-ons. My OH and I have done anal on me a few times and whilst we're still new new to it we are really enjoying it. I want to give my OH anal but I don't know what sort of strap-on/dildo to use. Any advice?
*Emma* wrote:
Im game and id say im quite girly but tbh when a person is in the bedroom they can be quite different to how you see them on a daily basis and how you would expect them to be sexually. x
Im a straight repectable guy who loves anal play, just need to find a mutual partner who is willing to try a strap on with me. The search seems endless
I'm a very girly girl, but love nothing my than getting down to it with my strap on, I guess you can't tell a book by it's cover.
Also it was me that wanted to do it and suggested it to my hubby not the other way around.
He loves it now can't get enough! and so do I.
x
I'm a respecable, mumsy even mum. I'm normally very submissive.
But I definately would!
Simple answer is; ones who like it! :D There is no way to tell by looking at someone.
jaibei wrote:
*Emma* wrote:
Im game and id say im quite girly but tbh when a person is in the bedroom they can be quite different to how you see them on a daily basis and how you would expect them to be sexually. x
Im a straight repectable guy who loves anal play, just need to find a mutual partner who is willing to try a strap on with me. The search seems endless
I'm the same, decent straight guy who enjoys bum fun and needs a lovely caring girl to share the fun with.... She's out there somewhere! :)
Further to my previous post - 'would' has very much become 'will' after some fun developments with D
:D