SAME! Kinda… I asked my partner about this because to me all of that is part of the sexual experience. We could have oral, watersports, myriad of body bits being stroked, caressed and kissed, basically everything bar penile penetration, and we agreed that we’d still say we had sex. When we first see each other the first thing we do is kiss and touch while I start by removing his top so I can feel his skin on me. Thats what drives the direction that our sex is going to go, to either the love connection or kinky and pain.
But then I also said that I was overthinking it, he agreed
Boob and nipple play is my favourite type of foreplay. Anything from a sensual and gentle massage to pinching, pulling and twisting depending on my mood. My OH enjoys a cuddle and fondling my boobs (works for us both!).