I will typically follow rules in general but also go with the “law of the land”.
I grew up in the midwest US and if you got caught doing 60MPH in a 55MPH speed zone, you’re getting a speeding ticket.
Here in California, you can very comfortably go 75 or even 80MPH in a 65MPH and not even really have to worry about a ticket.
A lot of it depends on traffic, how you’re driving (don’t be constantly changing lanes to pass other vehicles), weather conditions, and if your vehicle has registration issues, looks unsafe to drive, or if you’re driving a “flashy” car like a lamborghini.
Disclaimer: Speeding is still speeding which will at some point likely land you in the presence of law enforcenemt. Don’t come visiting the California and/or the US, get pulled over, and say, “But justanotherkinkystraightguy said I could speed!..” lol
The real problem is once people feel the ‘freedom’ of driving in California and get to thinking they can speed whenever and whereever they want.
Most of my “speeding” talk was specifically on the freeway. And there’s still a safer way to not look like a jerk doing it. But if you start going too fast around more business or residential areas then expect to get wrecked by the cops for endangering people.
We have kids in my neighborhood so I drive less than the posted 25MPH just because like little ‘Barry Allens’ they can be in front of your car in a split second.
ETA Speeding was supposed to be a brief topic in my reply. I don’t even remember all where I was going with that. 40yo is scary! Stay away everyone
ETA again: Ok I remember now. sits down and sets aside walker with tennis balls on the bottom
I have a stepdaughter who married her now-husband about six months before COVID hit. I’m sure the restrictions varied but we saw each other in person at least weekly throughout COVID. Maybe we kept back a little at the very beginning.
So yes, following the rules but also I take ‘common sense’ liberties. Right turns on red are legal in general but in some specific situations they are not. If there are literally no other cars on the road, I’m going lol.
I’m not exactly a rebel but that’s about where I am with that.
And I don’t at all feel that meeting up with a SO you’re not married to yet is “dangerous”. Just unnecessarily f**king with people’s lives imo