Are there any particular words or phrases that really get you going ? I get scolding a lot and anything along those lines tend to work. That said some more then others “I m going to smack your bare bottom young man” has a much greater effect than “I am going to tan your backside” The phrase “your going to get a good hiding” however is a turn off. What works for you ?
I have loads but I will start of with panties, put your face in my panties gets me going more than put your face in my knickers.
It’s strange how different words for the same thing have totally different reactions. The word “arse” is crude and has no effect whilst bum or bottom really does
Interesting topic. I'm fascinated by the effect of some words.
So, I'm with teacake. Panties are a sexual thing. Knickers are something your Mum talks about. So my blog and posts on here are panties all the way.
So, Billy, I love how words affect people differently. For me arse is a swear word and bum / bottom are again words your Mum would use. So for me, the sexual word for it is ass. I know it is all very American and very porny, but over the years, I've settled on ass as the word that will get me going.
The ones that really interest me are slut and whore. I love slut. It really gets me worked up in no time, especially if he calls me "his slut". Whore, completely the opposite, Total turn off, and I know it isn''t because of the prostitute thing, because I don't have a problem with prostitution in itself. I can't work it out - I literally hate whore.
I agree regarding panties / knickers. However for most things it’s the other way round for me due to the “mother/son flr” relationship we have. Therefore bum/ bottom fit better. Anything slightly “old school” works for me like been “scolded” or “in disgrace”. I even prefer “getting a good smacked bottom” to the in my eyes more American “getting a spanking” Also due to my “mum’s” being very well spoken swear words sound strange. I have a friend who hates been called “a cow” and it will make her lose her temper as she says it’s very unflattering but takes been called “a b***h” as a compliment. Wow don t I sound geeky. ☹️ I do fun stuff too honest !! And yes I am suppose to be banned of here by “mum” but really I m “in disgrace” most of the time anyway 😜
Kinky Maria - maybe it’s because whore sounds cruder, more the sort of thing that would be said in a corse way as an insult whilst “slut” has more “sexy” connotations ie you would maybe jokingly call a friend “a little slut” after she had had a good night but “whore” would be harsher . I suppose it’s similar to how different actions turn people on. The whole dominateix in leather with whips and cock cages scare me but I ll happily (ish) be sent to bed with a smacked bottom
I think the top one that gets me all sweaty-palmed and thrumming is '£20 off £40'. 🙂
Your northern aren’t you !!
Or I totally missed a joke
It's the magic Lovehoney special offer 🙂 (though increasingly rare these days).
Is that a hint to any staff that maybe reading this Ian 😜 If half prices offers are your thing between Xmas and new year must be crazy ground your end !!
You see, I much prefer spanking to many of the euphemised words for it. I feel, a bit like an actual spanking, it is more harsh and to the point.
You might be right about the whore thing, although if you read my blog, you'll know I can perfectly crude when I want to be!
Like your friend, I love bitch. It is almost like a badge of honour. I mean, I'm not really bitchy or slutty, but the words are both good.
However unlike your friend, I quite like cow too, in the specific context of hanging udders, which if I'm on all fours I definitely have.
Spanking to me sounds a bit kinky and playful, I use it on here as it’s common use but I think some other things sound more serious. I have looked at your blog before it’s very good I think the right words have the most effect Especially with anything involving role play Unless you have lots of money/ very lucky your never going to have a house that looks like it needs a maid or an authentic school room however the right language can really make a seen. “Mums” daughter and me are close in age and she once told me that she “got off, got dressed and got out” in the middle of the act when someone called her a whore instead of a slut !!
I don't know why, but pound/ing
A personal one is "Slip me a thick 'un " The only word that does nothing for me is the "C" word.