So me and my boyfriend haven't had sex yet as I want to take things slow and just let things develop and just happen if it happens. But today, he completely surprised me by appearing at my house, dressed up in leather (something I mentioned would be hot if he did), with a leather flogger and a set of handcuffs. He completely surprised the hell out of me by handcuffing me and then fingering me to a few orgasms while using the whip lightly on the sensitive areas of my body (breasts, clit, etc). I just never knew he would be interested in doing something like that so I'm still in shock lol
A guy with long hair in leather, holding a leather flogger and handcuffs.. Yeah I feel like all my ships have come in lol
That sounds great, maybe your relationship is ready for the next step?
It might very well be. I do feel a lot closer to him these days and we've been doing a lot of things, other than sex lately too. Maybe do the actual deed next weekend or something like that
Many years ago, someone said to me "The Boy Scouts But the Girl Guides" It is so true. We havn't a clue what girls/women want (Mars / Venus) or when they want it!! You have to give us clues and guide us.
Kittycat102 You now know the secret of getting what you want. Don't trust anything to fate, you may never get it.