In our quest to spice up our sexlife my husband of 27 years said he'd like me to wear stockings and suspenders, so I ordered some crotchless knickers with suspenders along with some black stockings. I don't think he was especially turned on by them but Iwas, well by the knickers anyway, which felt very "naughty"!
Now I realise that this is probably all very tame and mundane stuff to most of you, but up to now we have been the most unimaginitive and unadventurous couple ever, so this was way up the scale for us!
You say you enjoyed them and thats half the battle anyway - if you feel sexy it usually translates to your OH so even if he wasn't totally turned on by them its great that you were!!
You say you enjoyed them and thats half the battle anyway - if you feel sexy it usually translates to your OH so even if he wasn't totally turned on by them its great that you were!!
Sally, im nearly in my thirtys and never met a giry to own a pair of crothless knickers! Saying that though, im sure you looked fab and your hubby loved every second of it! (not to mention yourself feeling naughty) I hope you both have many more enjoyable times and keep up the spice in the sex part of your lives x
In our quest to spice up our sexlife my husband of 27 years said he'd like me to wear stockings and suspenders, so I ordered some crotchless knickers with suspenders along with some black stockings. I don't think he was especially turned on by them but Iwas, well by the knickers anyway, which felt very "naughty"!
Now I realise that this is probably all very tame and mundane stuff to most of you, but up to now we have been the most unimaginitive and unadventurous couple ever, so this was way up the scale for us!
urr no its not tame and mundane.
i bought my first pair last year, at 41 so a warning, you will end up with more pairs and I bet if he was honest your husband loved it
Nice one Sally, thats great! Not everyone here is adventurous, and we all find new things at our own pace. Very happy you found they made you feel "naughty", and I'm sure your husband would have enjoyed them too!
Now I realise that this is probably all very tame and mundane stuff to most of you, but up to now we have been the most unimaginitive and unadventurous couple ever, so this was way up the scale for us!
And in all honesty it dosen't matter what we think so long as *you* feel happy and adventurous!
There's no right or wrong way to do sex and anyone who tells you that is wrong.
Taking little steps is often the best way to start, and going as far as you feel comfortable is wonderful. Hope you continue to have fun!
Now I realise that this is probably all very tame and mundane stuff to most of you, but up to now we have been the most unimaginitive and unadventurous couple ever, so this was way up the scale for us!
And in all honesty it dosen't matter what we think so long as *you* feel happy and adventurous!
There's no right or wrong way to do sex and anyone who tells you that is wrong.
Taking little steps is often the best way to start, and going as far as you feel comfortable is wonderful. Hope you continue to have fun!
This!
There are people from all walks of (sex) life here, vanilla and kinksters - the one thing we all have in common is openness about sex!
You go for it. When I first met my hubby he tried telling me that stocking did nothing for him, now he complains when on the rare occasion I wear tights (Urgh!!)
You go foor it, we all like to try something differant and we all have to start somewhere.