Im in a relationship we live together and im very happy and love him lots but when hes not here i sometime resort to watching porn to pleasure myself i seem to be horny pretty much all the time and recently watched a female one on one session and it got me aroused especially the licking part maybe its because i dont get much of this in my relationship i dont know and I have thought about what would be like with a female is this wrong ? I had an offer before from a woman sed she would give me oral but i turned it down Im not sure i would actually be able to through with it and i do love my partner
Nothing wrong with being curious. I will only watch porn if it has girl on girl action, and sometimes when I play with my toys I think about other women. Totally normal to be turned on by new things. X
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There's nothing wrong with it as long as you discuss and agree it with him first, otherwise of course you'll be cheating on him.
You could maybe suggest that the female join you and he's allowed to watch which would definitely add some incentive to him agreeing.
no i wouldnt do that but thanks
Maybe try watching it together, am sure he'll enjoy it and it would maybe want him to perform it on you. Nothing wrong with being curious.
Yeah I'm like blonde vixen, I'll only watch porn with girl on girl in it. I thought I was bi and used to fantasise loads until I slept with a woman and decided it wasn't for me, I really didn't like it lol, I still think about it a bit but not as much... and my oh loves when I dirty talk about girl on girl experiences. Nothing wrong with it at all xx
I take it he won't talk about this ?
Nothing wrong with curiosity so good on ya I got to stop reading this forum in work lol
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Nothing wrong with curiosity so good on ya I got to stop reading this forum in work lol
Same haha
My OH is Bi curious, when she was young she thought she could be gay, she had the chance to sleep with her best mate but turned it down as she was confused, she says the curiosity now comes from girl on girl porn and also it is often said that no one knows a woman's body like another woman! She says she wishes she had tried when she had the chance but it's just curiosity now as she happy with us and doesn't want to upset things, I like the thought of it but not sure if I'd be happy if she actually did because of her insecurity in the past!
I agree with everyone, theres nothing wrong with being curious. Maybe you could try talking to him to find out why there isn't much oral in hour relationship and go from there xxx I watch/read all sorts of porn and erotica some of which if it happened in real life would be a total turn off so think its only natural to be curious and explore new things :-)
There's nothing wrong with watching porn and it is normal for it to arouse you , they wouldn't make it otherwise but as for the curiosity about another girl I would leave it as a fantasy you will more than likely upset your partner if you discussed it with him , I know I would feel inadequate if my wife suddenly wanted to try some girl on girl !
Like MissChar - I used to fantasise about women until I actually decided to sleep with one and then realised it was not for me either. Mr Scorpius also loves it when I tell him my girly story - lol. There is nothing wrong with being curious - but if you do decide to experiment you should talk to your partner first otherwise it would be cheating even if it is with the same sex... Also you could suggest having a 69 together - that way he gets something exciting at the same time. Hope this helps :) xx
im the same as blonde vixen, although i do love women anyway. it is completely normal and ok to like both men and women.
i would just be careful about how you tell your boyfriend if you choose to do so as some men could interprit that as a go ahead to start inviting other women into the bedroom. which is fine if you want that but your relationship needs to be very strong as jealousy can and will ruin relationships xx
I find that despite the fact I am straight it's the women I focus on most when I'm watching porn. I get aroused watching girl on girl or girls on their own or girls with men. I will also think about being with a woman occasionaly when pleasuring myself. There is no doubt in my mind though that I am straight and I know that I would never want to take my fantasies any further. If you feel like you do want to though then there is nothing wrong with experimenting as long as you are open and honest with your partner about it :) xx
Thanks everyone I dont think I would actually do it though i'm happy enough and love him i think it just curiosity
I'm the same. Pretty sure I'm bi but never had the opertunity to try (got with my husband when I was young) I spoke to him about it and he's so amazing. He really wants me to try and doesn't mind if I have a special girly friend. I would love him to watch, but he says he doesn't have to and he's happy for me to explore, as long as I'm safe. I'm pregnant now, but will be looking for someone after I'm back in shape :) hope I can find someone nice x
There's nothing wrong with having an imagination and fantasizing. I really want to try it with a woman but I have no idea how to go about it really, I suck at flirting with guys let alone girls haha.
Its one thing having an imagination and fantasizing and another actually doing it I mean personally if your with someone I dont think you should even be asking that sort of thing let alone actually doing it especially when your married and have a baby on the way thats just shocking to me that you would even be looking to do that even when you have had the baby I mean youve had a baby with this guy which seems like the relationship is serious and your married yet you seem like u cant love him that much and hes not enough for you if u feel the need to do that sorry just my opinion i dont agree with it at all