Hey everyone, ive just deleted like 90% of the people on my friends list cause i dont actually talk to you. I dont want people taking offence of me deleting them, but i had about 50 people on there and spoke to a handful. so i decided instead of having it say you have 14 people online, none of whom talk to me or visa versa just to delete you all.
As i said no offence ment, if you feel you cant live without me on your friends list then chat to me more! and il re-add you
Your choice babe on who you want on there to chat too xx I do it weekly lol
well i just know if i didnt say somthing some people might get offended (its happend before on other places) people youve never spoken to before complain that you delete me :S
i think it takes two. if you dont talk to that person then they wont make the effort either :)
It's ok. I do it often, especially on FB. 
sometimes people are busy and come onto the forums for a quick read and post couple of things then they are off line, other times people have more time for chats, also depends on the chats, at the moment there seems to be a lot that think this site is just for sexual chat, i really must do as weesteve has done and clear out my friends list, but also remember even tho you have logged out you seem to appear on line for hours after so people think you are being rude not replying
I wish there was a way to block people who repeatedly make unwanted friend requests. I keep getting requests from various people who don't post on the forums. As I've had no interaction with them, I don't trust them and wonder if these are among the people that only want to talk about sexual matters...
It annoys me that I have to keep denying them every so often.
Cat Lady wrote:
I wish there was a way to block people who repeatedly make unwanted friend requests. I keep getting requests from various people who don't post on the forums. As I've had no interaction with them, I don't trust them and wonder if these are among the people that only want to talk about sexual matters...
It annoys me that I have to keep denying them every so often.
just leave the request outstanding, thats what i do, they cant bug you then as you havent accepted or denied
Good idea. I must remember that one!
I leave people on there, just in case because you never know. Example being I had someone on my friends list for a very long time before we started chatting and a little while back she plucked up the courage to say hello and I'm glad she did cuz I very much enjoy chatting to her now :)
TTurtle wrote:
I leave people on there, just in case because you never know. Example being I had someone on my friends list for a very long time before we started chatting and a little while back she plucked up the courage to say hello and I'm glad she did cuz I very much enjoy chatting to her now :)
Would that be me by any chance? ;-) Or was there someone else as scared of the chat function as me...
Cat Lady wrote:
TTurtle wrote:
I leave people on there, just in case because you never know. Example being I had someone on my friends list for a very long time before we started chatting and a little while back she plucked up the courage to say hello and I'm glad she did cuz I very much enjoy chatting to her now :)
Would that be me by any chance? ;-) Or was there someone else as scared of the chat function as me...
what you scared of if anyone annoys you just delete
gunther wrote:
Cat Lady wrote:
TTurtle wrote:
I leave people on there, just in case because you never know. Example being I had someone on my friends list for a very long time before we started chatting and a little while back she plucked up the courage to say hello and I'm glad she did cuz I very much enjoy chatting to her now :)
Would that be me by any chance? ;-) Or was there someone else as scared of the chat function as me...
what you scared of lol
Rejection, mostly. Probably because my social skills IRL aren't very good.
i did send a message but didnt get a reply.........but chats like that sometimes
Bear in mind that chat at the moment is kaput so sending a message and not getting a reply could be a technical issue. The people you are deleting may have sent mesages you have not received and VV.
LV
Cat Lady wrote:
TTurtle wrote:
I leave people on there, just in case because you never know. Example being I had someone on my friends list for a very long time before we started chatting and a little while back she plucked up the courage to say hello and I'm glad she did cuz I very much enjoy chatting to her now :)
Would that be me by any chance? ;-) Or was there someone else as scared of the chat function as me...
I actually wrote the post out originally with your name included but changed it in case you didn't want a mention but it is you indeed ^_^ and I've very glad I kept you on my list :)
Haha. Clearly my powers of deduction are working.
And yes, I think the chat function is odd. Sometimes the notifications to say someone has made a comment don't show up straight away. I've also noticed the windows don't always stay open mid conversation as well so I have to keep checking the message windows if I'm flipping between different windows...
I really do not feel the need to explain why I do or do not have people or want people on my friends list.
Turtle, you shouldnt have to either.
Anyway, I only have friends on here that I speak to. I have deleted those who I find either rude or unreasonable.
Cat Lady wrote:
I wish there was a way to block people who repeatedly make unwanted friend requests. I keep getting requests from various people who don't post on the forums. As I've had no interaction with them, I don't trust them and wonder if these are among the people that only want to talk about sexual matters...
It annoys me that I have to keep denying them every so often.
I hate that ! I hate it even more when they bring it to the public forum moaning why have you not added me ! I have a choice add or delete if your deleted there is a reason ! So stop bloody asking very annoying !
aww I have quite a large friends list!! but all forums in common have sleepers!!! most sign-up and do nothing!! true I was the same sign up then a year later found out LH had a forum!! hehehe!
I as soon I had got my first profile pic I had lots of requests!!
I was getting two to three a week!!
Theres quite afew members I've add but had accept the request, because they don't use the forums.
Just a nice chat nothing too dirty etc is fine, talking about sex & toys etc is what this forum and community is about!!! it took me until the age of 18 to know about lub! and buying the proper lub has given me a great sexual boost along with the flashlight!
I don't understand why someone treat this forum as a chat up line for their cheap fucks! its more then that, this forum and online shop and community advise which is real great!
theres tons of porn out there on the web!! or just ask Ukwanker for a mag he may let you hire one, afew maybe half price as some pages are stuck together! 