So my bf doesnt complain about my blowjobs or anything I do but I want to try something different on him.... any advice/tips... things we could try?!
i am an advocate of drinking a mouthful or warm drink like coffee or hot chocolate, swallowing it, then put his cock in your mouth...he will feel like he has died and gone to heaven
cold freshly squeezed orange juice dribble all over the body and slowly licked off
You could also try one of these: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/s.cfm?term=vibrating+tongue+rings&x=0&y=0
Good luck!
Avrielle_Aniko wrote:
There are about a million different things you can try to give different effects during a blow job!
You can go for some of the tips on here already like oral mints, or drinking warm water before giving him oral, or giving one of those vibrating extender things a go. (Have never tried any of them so can't say how good they are.)
Different positions can make a difference to keeping your own interst going. I normally go down on my OH when he is lying down and it gets kinda boring and a little annoying with my hair flopping down my face and gets hot too. Maybe giving him oral while he is standing up, or have him sort of on top of your chest to 'feed' you his cock?
Different oral techniques I could type all day about, but experimenting with different angles and parts of your tongue while giving him oral and licking/touching his balls at the same as giving him a blow job are the usual winners.
If you have a bullet vibrator, you could try holding it to the side of your cheek while sucking him so he'll feel the vibes through your mouth?
If he has intrest in prostate/anal play you could (if your not too squeemish) insert a finger in his anus while giving the blow job, or using an anal toy on him at the same time.
Stroking and pressing the thin smooth area of skin between the scrotum and anus is supposedly great sensation too.
Trial and error is the best way around it. Just keep trying different things and you should be able to tell if he loves or hates something.
I do the warm drink think a lot as I am HUGE tea drinker....
I am tempted to play with his booty but well it may freak him out... although If we 69 with him on top, I tend to stroke it (well its looking me in the face!) im not sure how much further I would go! I have a plug we bought with the intention of using it on him but I dunno if he would jump a million miles if i went near him with it!
you need to tell him what you are doing and dont try anything sudden or he will freak out. Do it slowly with lots of lube and he will love you forever.
Avrielle_Aniko wrote:
There are about a million different things you can try to give different effects during a blow job!
You can go for some of the tips on here already like oral mints, or drinking warm water before giving him oral, or giving one of those vibrating extender things a go. (Have never tried any of them so can't say how good they are.)
Different positions can make a difference to keeping your own interst going. I normally go down on my OH when he is lying down and it gets kinda boring and a little annoying with my hair flopping down my face and gets hot too. Maybe giving him oral while he is standing up, or have him sort of on top of your chest to 'feed' you his cock?
Different oral techniques I could type all day about, but experimenting with different angles and parts of your tongue while giving him oral and licking/touching his balls at the same as giving him a blow job are the usual winners.
If you have a bullet vibrator, you could try holding it to the side of your cheek while sucking him so he'll feel the vibes through your mouth?
If he has intrest in prostate/anal play you could (if your not too squeemish) insert a finger in his anus while giving the blow job, or using an anal toy on him at the same time.
Stroking and pressing the thin smooth area of skin between the scrotum and anus is supposedly great sensation too.
Trial and error is the best way around it. Just keep trying different things and you should be able to tell if he loves or hates something.
All the advice you need ! Eye contact whilst performing is fun, and maybe experimenting with his "finale" ?
just remember lube lube and more lube
and an eager and slutty look in your eyes always helps too.
DrtyBoy wrote:
and an eager and slutty look in your eyes always helps too.
apparently I have that naturally!! Yeah much in my own perversion and sickness watching him jump 10 feet in the air would amuse me (sweet revenge for those impatient ass attacks on me!!!!).....
i suppose i could lube him up a little and play with it and if he kinda wriggles a little i keep going....
yeah thats how the OH started on me, use the finger around the anus to start with to help him relax and talk him through it all- - tease him with promises of letting him do it to you to and hes all yours
DrtyBoy wrote:
yeah thats how the OH started on me, use the finger around the anus to start with to help him relax and talk him through it all- - tease him with promises of letting him do it to you to and hes all yours
We are huuuuge anal sex fans as well as DP, so no stranger to him playing with my chocostarfish just not sure if I will squeemish at doing it to him, he has told me I can play with his choco just not sure if he means in the same context as mine gets used!!!
i think all men have a desire to try it at least. It took me a long time to come round but i am very keen now.
lol interesting... i doubt he's "hard" enough to take a 8 inch dick up his choco!! hahaha.... he even tells me himself I'm pretty hardcore!!!
Maybe I'll just tickle it a little while i con him into 69!! ;)
We had a threesome once and the joining guy went to the OH "shes a right little porn star" to which I went "doesnt everyone do what I do?"
Just before he starts to come, firmly press and massage on the smooth space between his balls and ass.
It's very effective.
Hippie types call it the 'Sacred Spot' and Americans call it the 'tain't' :Because it tain't your balls and it tain't your ass.
well occhi your OH is a very llucky guy from the sounds of it.....no not everyone does that, certainly not DP with a random !
hahaha..... apparently he is !! :) trust me i'm just as lucky! :)
T.Lillies I will give it a go, I tend to play with his tain't while I am dozy and lying in bed..... :D
good luck and tell us how it goes
yes, I will!!! .... maybe i should tie him up so he doesnt wriggle
Northern lights wrote:
maybe experimenting with his "finale" ?
Please can you elaborate on this!
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