Hi,
I don't know if this is the right place to put this, but I just had to talk to someone about this .
I have a close friend , a "Best Friend" if you like. We have been friends for a few years and have a great relationship. We confide in each other when times are tough and talk about anything and everything ( And I do mean EVERYTHING !)
Recently I have been saying how although I do sincerley love my OH, I am rather bored and unhappy with our love life. And, although I have tried to change things, they are not really changing at all. Also, she has mentioned a few times that her hubby has suggested them having a 3some and she was unsre of what to do about it. However, today my friend decided to tell me that actually , she and her Hubby have been fantasising about me joing them in bed.She was quite explicit in what they had been talking / thinking about and asked me if I would be interested in doing it as a one off? She also said if I wanted to do it without my OH knowing, they were totally prepared to keep it quiet . ( There was no pressure - it wasnt like "Say yes or we cant be friends" Etc ... ) And she did apologise , but said she just had to tell me.
My OH would NEVER consider a 3some for us as a couple - he views it as cheating. And I know he would certainly not be happy with me doing this. I also do NOT want to cheat on him.... But it has left me rather mixed up. I guess I am a bit shocked, I didn't expect this at all from her. I certainly don't want to lose our friendship, but I do wonder now if she will be looking at me in a sexual way ? Also, as I said, things have been very dull with my love life and it is frustarting in a way that temptation of excitment is so close, but I love my OH too much to accept it. I don't know if I should mention this to my OH or not ?
Any opinions welcome.....
Thanks
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