Hi everyone (especially those still awake now!)
I have a weird confession of sorts and I was curious as to what people thought on the subject. So here goes:
I haven't voluntarily worn a skirt or dress for 14 years! I stopped wearing them at middle school when the school allowed girls to wear trousers as part of the uniform as well, so I switched over and stopped wearing them for casual/non uniform wear as well. I did have to wear skirts for 4 years at secondary school because that was before they allowed trousers, and I wanted to go to that school in particular. But I stopped wearing skirts 14 years ago after i took my GCSEs because sixth form didn't require uniform.
Aside from that, I haven't worn a skirt or dress as casual wear for probably 20 years! I'm wondering if this is weird?
Initially I stopped because I was something of a tomboy and I hated how skirts could blow up in the wind and show underwear (something of a problem at middle school, it has to be said!) But later on trousers became handy to hide flabby thighs and when I can't be bothered to shave my legs (bad I know, but I hate doing it so I don't do it nearly as often as I should!)
I hate my legs so I avoid showing them. I rarely even wear shorts in public these days, usually only crop trousers, even though I would probably be fine in mid length shorts. The closest I come to dresses is tunic tops with leggings but I don't do that very often either.
But as some of you may know, I often feel lonely and express my wish I had a partner, and lament my inability to meet guys. I was talking to someone I "met" online recently as part of my RP community, who suggested I'd meet guys and feel more feminine and sexy if I wore skirts... I am genuinely not sure what to make of this suggestion because I rarely feel feminine and NEVER sexy so I am not sure if the problem is my brain, or my clothes! So I am kind of scared to even try because I'm afraid of looking and feeling stupid, or that it make me even more self-conscious than usual and, worse, that people who know my long-expressed dislike of skirts (my mum, mostly!) will laugh at me if I suddenly give it a try! So I have no idea what to do...
I suppose half the problem is I hate being looked at, yet if I don't attract attention, I'll be single and lonely forever, so I am caught between 2 evils!
I guess my questions to you guys are:
Ladies, do you wear skirts and dresses and does it affect how you feel about yourself compared to wearing trousers?
Gentlemen, do you prefer women to wear skirts/dresses or trousers? Do you view women differently depending on what they wear?