So as a few of you will know, the other half and myself have decided its time to add another wee one to our family, and many of you have given your support and advise on this. You also may have noticed i haven't been online as often as usual the last couple of weeks. I'm so very sad to annouce that we lost a baby at the beginning of the month. I'm not entirely sure as to why i have told you, i guess because i know how lovely and supportive you all are, and maybe as we've decided not to tell friends and family as it was so early on in the pregnancy and what with crimbo coming up and we didn't want to upset them. I think just needed to get it off my chest to make it seem real.
Oooh MissO....sending *massive hugs* to you and the OH. I'm so sorry!
I know it was early on but still heartbreaking.
I wish you all the best in your continued attempts.
I know it's not necessarily very comforting, but the number of women who miscarry early on in pregnancy is astronomical - it's a fact of life so don't feel like you've done anything wrong in your attempt! Grieve for the lost baby but don't place any blame .
Thanks guys. It helps to have "the right" things said, especially as we are keeping it to ourselves. I understand its a fact of life, im extremly lucky to have one beautiful child already, his cuddles certainly help and prove that when its meant to be it will all go to plan. xx
Aww, MO, Me and Jade are thinking of you, We've been through the very same thing quite a few times over the last 4 years so we know exactly how you're feeling right now...
We hope the pain is short lived for you both.
Best of luck for future tries!
Our biggest, Most sensative hugs, Paul and Jade xxx
Miss O, I'm really sorry for you both. Big hugs coming your way. Make sure you look after each other, especially if nobody else knows what you're going through. Try to stay healthy over the winter, since your body's been through a tough time, and trust that next year will bring new things.
Mrs M had several miscarriages at early stages, and we started to think that perhaps we wouldn't ever be successful, but we went on to have a normal, healthy boy. I know it's hard now, but there is still hope for the future.
*big hugs* So sorry that things didn't work this time. Like Ad says, it doesn't make it feel any better but nothing you did would likely have helped, nor does the fact it's early mean it doesn't hurt. I sincerely wish you all the best in future. I'm glad that your son is helping right now xxx
I am so sorry to hear about your sad loss. I have no children myself nor any plans to have any, so I can't really imagine how you are feeeling. However, may I suggest that after christmas you do tell your friends and family which surely will help with the grieving process.
Hi Miss O, really sorry for your loss. We've never had anything like that happen, so I struggle to think what what you must be going through. Get as many cuddles from your little boy as you can, I know that helps with me. Not that I cuddle your little boy, I cuddle mine instead, but you know what I mean.
I lost a child before I even was aware I had it and it still upset me loads. It's a big shock to miscarry in any circumstance, so I give you all the sympathy I have. xxx
Me too It happened to me a few years ago.
I'm sorry to hear you have to go through this but focus on the future and keep your chin up :)