My first orgasm was clitoral and when I was probably 12. I was laying in bed one night, rubbing myself "where it feels good" when suddenly it happened. It felt so good I haven't stopped yet!
I was 11 my first time. i was sick in bed and home alone for like 2 hours. i remember finding one of my dads magazines and somehow i got all hard. well i was rubbing my penis cause it felt good and then i just happened. i had a orgasm but nothing came out then. it was not until a year later i started shooting. from that first day i loved how it felt throughout out the whole build up to that first peak of pleasure. i did it like 3 x a day for years. when i got into high school and i had my first Girlfriend an we started to have real sex is when i slowed down on masturbation.
Teddy bear- hope you passed your test then!
My first was when I was 12, cos I know thats when I started masturbating. Couldn't tell you more than that cos I don't remember. Probably in bed.
As for my best orgasm, well, I can't really say. There're a few contenders. Recently I've been having amazing orgasms that leave me breathless for a good few minutes, but there're older memories too. :)
It was the day before either my 12th or 13th birthday. Id been masturbating before that just because it felt good but never ejaculated. The night was in the summer and id stayed up and watched 'lesbian love stories' on channel 5 (still Awesome to this day) And then after the first squirt it became easier and easier
I was about 11 years old and I was sick and home alone for about 2 hours while my mom went out to do some shopping. i remember finding one of my dad playboys and i liked it. so i went down to my room got naked and i started rubbing myself while looking at the naked women. i still don't know why thats what I did sense i had never really rubbed myself before but with in a few min i got this super feeling and my first orgasm happened. i do remember yelling out very loudly " OH MY GOD what's happening" and then i hit my peak. it scared me at first but once i came down i was into it... now nothing came out but man it felt so good.
from that time for the next few years i did it 2-3 times a day. it was the best discovery i ever figured out on my own...
Brilliant - I love all the different stories from peeps! I guess I must have been around 12 or 13 and it was in the bath. I used to lie on my front just relaxing in the water, and I must have been washing myself down when it suddenly felt very nice. I carried on "cleaning" and felt a lovely warm sensation throughout my whole body. I was fascinated by this and did it again whenever I had a bath, tried it in bed but it was never the same! Oddly, I adored the jets in swimming pools too and used to spend ages near them ;) never came tho cos family was always too close! hehe! Guess I must be a water baby eh!
Mines was with my first boyfriend when I was 16. One of the girls at school had been talking about them and I had no idea what she was on about.
When I had sex, it used to get to a tickly stage and I'd push him off. He suggested keeping going the next time, which we did. I swear I the whole street must have heard me and I almost blacked out!
In the following years I was shocked at how many friends said they faked them. If the guy aint doing it right, then why pretend?
THATS BOUT THE SAME AS ME,ONLY IT HAPPEND IN MY SLEEP,WOT A BRILL FEELING,WANTED TO GO TO BED EARLY EVTY NITE TO SEE IF IT WUD HAPPEN AGEN.IT STILL DOES SUMTIMES BUT ITS YET TO HAPPEN WITH A PARTNER HOW SAD IS THAT,
mine was with a pillow - i got pretty addicted to it at one point! i can still orgasm by using a pillow now within about 60secs - they're only ever small ones tho, i usually prefer to be worked up to that point slowly and then they are much more intense.
on the subject of nipples and breastfeeding - mine are *more* sensitive now than they ever were but i still feed my youngest once or twice a week, so can see how some of you have ubersensitive nips from breastfeeding. i'm a cup size DD/E for the record.
Mrs. Naughty has developed into an orgasm machine. She orgasms through: nipple stimulation, clitoral, vaginal, g-spot, a-spot, anal, can multiple orgasm and on occasion ejaculates!!!
Mr. Naughty is frantically reading "The Multi Orgasmic Man" in a vain bid to keep up, but can't quite bring himself to slamming his todger in the toilet seat as a method of delaying ejaculation!! LOL!
Mr. Naughty's first orgasm was whilst watching the Virginian on TV while his parents had gone shopping; scared the living daylights out of him.
Mrs Naughty's was on her own in bed just playing around down there and then ... WOW!
i am still waiting :(
enjoy everything alot but never have ahd that moment! one day hopefully - i will keep on trying!
Try licorice Miss Sparkle.
licorice? please tell me more!
Hmmm; dunno. It's a little known ancient and inscrutible eastern secret that, should we divulge it to you might drive you over the edge into orgasmic psychotic madness. Do you think you could cope? We're doubtful. Plus of course we have to consider the tremendous value of passing on such a powerful secret. How would you propose to repay us for a future of lustful, orgiastic multiple orgasms?
Depending upon your response we shall consider whether you could handle such powerful and dangerous knowledge, and whether what you offer is of high enough intrinsic value to unlock the doors of ecstacy.
@ miss sparkle.
You've got nothing to be embarrased about there, many people are in the same situation with orgasms. From experience I believe that it is mostly a state of mind, and therefore easy to put right once you find the key to unlocking the issue. Usually it has to do with sub-conscious issues of guilt, or holding back, or feeling unworthy of extreme pleasure, or embarrasment over the thought of totally letting go. Sometimes religious guilt (the "sex is a sin" notion) can hold folks back if they have those teachings embedded in their past.
I've seen these things effect people, and I've also seen them overcome them. It just needs a genuine desire to open up and set yourself free. Counselling can help. Sex therapists are good, or clinical hypnosis. They allow you to address any underlying issues first and then move on to embrace the whole you.
Try this in the meantime - it has worked for others!
Start by visualising yourself masturbating and the pleasure getting greater and greater until you orgasm. Watch a porn film or two and place yourself in the situation of the women coming on screen. Close your eyes and take yourself there. You are that other person on screen! Start simple and allow your fantasies to get more daring - be as wanton as you can in your mind. Anything goes in your immagination - nothing whatsoever is forbidden or wrong! Place yourself in the role of porn film director. You are filming yourself re-enacting the scenes you've seen for real. Be explicit with the instructions whilst the filming goes on - the hornier and more explicit the better. When you've finished you can always replay the film in your head whenever you want in future!
Create a fantasy of being worshipped as a sex goddess on a big throne in front of hundreds of loyal subjects. Create a special costume that you wear in your mind - it's erotic, revealing and very ornate just as befits a sex goddess. They watch you in awe as you masturbate in front of them. Hundreds of eyes caress your body, seeing every little movement and detail as you open your legs and allow them to see you caress yourself, play with vibrators, dildos and whatever you like as you come closer and closer to orgasm. The more pleasure you receive the more they praise you, until, in a massive wave of chanting and cheering, you come for them.
Do this each day and see how you go. Don't pressure yourself to come - it'll happen naturally when your mind is ready. I don't know, but I think you may find that it will help you.
BBG
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Mr & Mrs N, I didn't think you had it in you to deny anyone an orgasm! How mean! :P
Some brief googling seems to suggest that licorice root (perhaps from the health food shop?) is known to have positive effects on orgasms due to increased blood flow. But that was all I could find! It wasn't millions and billions of pages on its effects, so not sure how popular/effective a remedy it is. Perhaps Mr & Mrs N have first hand experience to share, now that I've divulged the little known ancient and inscrutable secret :)
My first orgasm, I can't remember - I know I was aware of that 'special spot' and how to make it feel good from as young as 7 or 8, but I couldn't put my finger on (ahem, puntastic) the first time I made myself go all the way!
First orgasm with a guy - now THAT I can remember! My first real boyfriend managed to make me come (from penetration, too!) the first night we were together. I was 18. I hung onto him for five years!
Aww, BBG - always with the good advice.
You've just hit on something that was playing on my mind too... when I was googling licorice for Ms Sparkle I came across a couple of threads about women not being able to orgasm and attributing this to their 'Catholic guilt'. Now, they really don't come much more Catholic than me - born and bred Irish girl, christened, communioned, confirmed, Mass every Sunday and four times at Easter - and never once has my religion affected my sex life.
Perhaps it's because I don't actually, like, believe in it? Or maybe I'm just a really bad Catholic. In fact, I am a really bad Catholic. But I suppose I fail to understand how someone can let the views of an organisation that's known for molesting young boys dictate to them or affect them when it comes to sexuality. Basically what I'm saying is, Catholic guilt my ass.
/rant.
hi shellyboo.
I wasn't referring to any particular religion when I mentioned "religious guilt" - just childhood and religious prohibitions in general. There are plenty of people who do feel inwardly guilty about sex due to messages they've been fed by authority figures in their formative years. Luckily, you and I have seen beyond that and come to our own conclusions. I've known / had relationships with people who've struggled to escape them though, hence my first-hand experience. Don't underestimate the power of dogma to control people!
By the way, something else I've found in life - when Catholic girls rebel, they really do it in style! The more someone tells you not to do something, the more you want to try it I guess! :-)
thankyou to bbg and shellyboo - i am going to try things out and will let you know how i get on. i am sure it is a mind thing, my first couple of relationships were never about me and i faked my way out of everything but i have changed tact with my new bf - he knows that i never had the big and i svery understanding and patient! i think we might be getting closer - i just need to let go.
is quite difficult getting used to have so much attention paid on me - and i have taken quite a bit of time recently just me trying different things and seeing what i like! hopefully i will be able to overcome whatever is holding me back!
@ mr & mr naughty i would very very gratful for any advise you have on offer and would repay you with all the details of if it actually works!! if there is anything else i can do to persuade you to let me know your secrets let me know and i will see if i can oblige!!!
Good luck to you - do try the visualisations I mentioned, you might find the results will really help you! :-)