Heels are a real turn-on for both of us, pornos have got it right - wear nothing but heels! Great for standing doggy too, if she's smaller than him, like us. One swinging club we go to bans heels in playrooms as you could get your eye put out during group play - sensible, and something you ought to think about at home, even if there's only 2 of you playing.
Hi swingcouple you sound as if you have it right both physically and mentally. How long have you been into swinging then?
hi tallboy, together, 4 years; she didn't do any before. but he used to swing quite a while ago with a previous gf. what we like most about swinging is the group action - foursomes and moresomes, which is why we like clubbing.
Moresomes is just our word for anything more than a foursome. Ought to explain about group sex - in clubs it's usual for several couples to be making love in the same playroom, but not actually playing together, so this wouldn't count as a foursome or moresome unless they started to interact. If 2 couples start to play together, that's a 4some; if more couples join in it becomes a moresome (6some, 8some or whatever - it doesn't need to have even numbers). Guess that is what used to be known as an orgy! This happens quite often in clubs; pairs become groups, which is why they all have one or two large playrooms, as well as smaller ones for swapping couples.
ive got heels for the bedroom they way too tall for me to wear out anywhere its quite a regualr thing to for me to wear them not every time but i wear them alot it turns him on like mad and i get treated like a godess which we all love hey ladies!
hi happycamper -there's no pressure on anyone to play, swingers usually have a strict rule that no means no. if you want to go and have a rest that's fine, and if you don't really fancy someone then you don't have to play with them. usually the women call the shots when you're playing in a group. you do tend to get swept up in the action though, and you've got to be careful to respect that not everybody there may be bi and to always use condoms. we had a very early experience with a group that stopped using condoms as the night wore on, and we were very lucky not to catch something! never again!
Usually a no drink policy and a gangmaster laying down the groundrules...... frustrating but everyone knows!!!!!
Bedroom shoes, I love them - instant sexiness
Happycamper,
Forget COCKle picking on Morecambe Bay !!!! Gangmaster one who when all around are shedding their inhibitions is cool calm and colected enough ! bit like me really - to tell others in the throes of nearing ecstacy what t do. Can usualy be teetotal but not absolutely necessary.... still chasing you around the tent/forums ha ha !!!
Ive only ever worn heels in bed once, it was fun though , much sexier than socks in bed anywho haha
Rarely but it has happened, stiletto's and stockings and on occasion my skin tight thigh boots. nice, but a little awkward at moments... still I must try it again soon ;)
I've just got some Biker boots.
While not strictly high heels there is like an inch on them.
And we all know women love a bad boy.
So I just need to get the leather trousers and the small matter of the bike itself.
I got a pair of those perspex stilettos, my fella gets a hard-on every time he sees me wearing them!! Most of all I love wearing them!
But the motorbike would be the cherry on top - a HD preferably (although a 50CC woould do if the right man was riding it)
ive got my eyes on a pair of thigh highs pirate style i think they would b v nice for in ma bedroom and i could possibly wear them out with jeans or summit not a mini or i could run a risk of looking like julia roberts in pretty woman dont think thatll go 2 well!
interesting! who knew!
I have to admit I'm a bit of a toe wiggler in the sack, so shoes just get in the way!
The only reason i haven't discarded my 90s platform knee highs is coz they make sex all the more exciting!
I absolutely love wearing a pair of high heels to feel uber-sexy for my partner. I get my sexy bedroom shoes by shopping around on the highstreet (my budget is really tight) and picked up some stunning red leather high heels recently-fantastic...yet to wear them in the bedroom, but I look forward to it.
Also does anyone else go for other kinds of shoes as a turn on? my favs for a long time were knee high doc martens, add longish skirt and you're good to go out and about, but you just KNOW you're going to get longing looks...my partner loves it when I leave them on, although that may be partly due to the amount of untying it takes to get them off!
opps I mean 'off'