I'd do it with a couple but I wouldn't actually do it with my own boyfriend lol
We are looking for a localish couple to us for regular sexy fun, nothing to heavy just sexy fun. We are on fabswingers but not having much joy there :(
juliephil wrote:
We are looking for a localish couple to us for regular sexy fun, nothing to heavy just sexy fun. We are on fabswingers but not having much joy there :(
Hi both, try social swinging. its a super friendly, supportive forum with genuine, lovely people.
I think that we would be interested in this, I'm just not sure how to approach the scene, or if there even is a scene in my location? How would you find out?
We've been fortunate in having both FFM and MMF by just hooking up with friends who have given us the right "signs". But a swingers club does sound like fun............................but it also sounds a bit daunting.
GV & OH
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GV & OV. My wife and I have been swinging for many, many years and have met some wonderful people and some right ' Bs ', so be very careful. Over the years we have made our own circle of friends ( about 40 ) and every 3 weeks or so we have parties at our place for between 8 and14 people ( not the same ones at every party ). They can all be trusted and follow our very strict rules with no problems. So be careful who you pick and where you do it. You sound like the right two to try it out, if you don't care for it back out as quick as you can. I certainly hope you have success. Good Luck. XXX
We were always discussing the possibility of others joining us or watching us and since we moved to our new flat I started walking around the house either naked or with underwear, providing really good view to everyone and especially the flat across the street.
I loved the idea of the guys across the street watching me getting dressed and undressed, my oh also found it a huge turn on and it was a matter of time until they knocked on our door asking for some sugar
Brightonsexy wrote:
We were always discussing the possibility of others joining us or watching us and since we moved to our new flat I started walking around the house either naked or with underwear, providing really good view to everyone and especially the flat across the street.
I loved the idea of the guys across the street watching me getting dressed and undressed, my oh also found it a huge turn on and it was a matter of time until they knocked on our door asking for some sugar
Looking at todays pic I am surprised there wasn't a queue!
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Me and my partner are trying but finding it really hard to actually do in our area norfolk is the worst!
chisel wrote:
GV & OV. My wife and I have been swinging for many, many years and have met some wonderful people and some right ' Bs ', so be very careful. Over the years we have made our own circle of friends ( about 40 ) and every 3 weeks or so we have parties at our place for between 8 and14 people ( not the same ones at every party ). They can all be trusted and follow our very strict rules with no problems. So be careful who you pick and where you do it. You sound like the right two to try it out, if you don't care for it back out as quick as you can. I certainly hope you have success. Good Luck. XXX
Thanks for the info. For now I think we will stick with what we know best but perhaps in the future who knows? We have enough on our hands at the moment with OH's friend (and his girlfriend) and GV's young and lovely girlfriend. Mrs GV is certainly taking it all in her stride!
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I've never been swinging but I've always wanted to a deep fantasy of mine is to watch others have sex while giving out a small bit of coaching , swinging is one of those things I worry risking getting into because you never know what you're getting yourself into but it's the risk that arouses me I think , the thought of finding myself in some trouble is somewhat pleasing
Anyone have any good starting advice, how do you find a club how do you get an invite etc what do you wear what so you expect etc anyone local to norwich who could help we would be most appreciative x
@cyclenutt there's all the info of clubs on Fabswingers and a small amount on social swiging.
There are forums on both sites that offer great advice, but Fab is better for the club details and events.
As for what to wear, it depends what type of club you go to. Some are a like a nightclub, others are classed as 'wet clubs' where guys were shorts or undies and ladies wear lingerie.
Never go with expectations. Go with the mindset of sitting in a bar, having a few drinks and chat to staff and members. You could go to a private room and play together, or take the plung and enjoy a couples only room and have sex besides others or watch.
Check out swinging sites for more info.
We were on Fabswingers and we met a guy through there. Was such a turn on watching him with Mrs Badger and seeing them pleasuring each other.
The only thing we found with Fabswingers and i belive most of these sites is the amount of time wasters that you get.
after reading posts on here i went and had a look on fabswingers and now i think im addicted loads of women in my area up to everything only thing is im married so its a no go really no harm in looking tho lol
Goodvibrationz wrote:
We've been fortunate in having both FFM and MMF by just hooking up with friends who have given us the right "signs". But a swingers club does sound like fun............................but it also sounds a bit daunting.
GV & OH
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clubs are much safer than meeting in homes (unless you attend a well established party). A club can be just lke a bar, you can go at your own pace ie socialising, or moving on to a private room, to playing alongside aother couple, to full swap.
If you're not too keen on singles, a couples only nght would be a good way to start.
If you do find a club you'd like to try, do tell staff it's your first time, they'll give you a tour and probably ntroduce you to regulars.
Would love to go to a Swingers club, not sure if the wife will agree to it though. We talk about it during sex and she seems to like the sound of it then, might suggest it for my birthday in a couple of months. Have been looking at a few on Swingers Heaven so have an idea where I'd like to go
Purring-Pussy wrote:
Goodvibrationz wrote:
We've been fortunate in having both FFM and MMF by just hooking up with friends who have given us the right "signs". But a swingers club does sound like fun............................but it also sounds a bit daunting.
GV & OH
XX
clubs are much safer than meeting in homes (unless you attend a well established party). A club can be just lke a bar, you can go at your own pace ie socialising, or moving on to a private room, to playing alongside aother couple, to full swap.
If you're not too keen on singles, a couples only nght would be a good way to start.
If you do find a club you'd like to try, do tell staff it's your first time, they'll give you a tour and probably ntroduce you to regulars.
Thanks for the info. We are still thinking about it all but may well give a club a try. X
We are on Fabswingers at the moment. When we were on there in the UK we would get loads of guys wanting to meet up but over here we are so far out of the way it's hard to meet up.
We've talked it and always dismissed it. Would love to but truly believe it would destroy our relationship