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I wish you the very best @MsSubExperimenter, take care :slightly_smiling_face:

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@MsSubExperimenter yes we have to protect our loved ones and ourselves to right you do the right thing hun :hugs: :kissing_heart: :kissing_heart:

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Yeah thank you :blush: my 1st jab it made me so tired and a bit of a headache, the 2nd one I had no symptoms

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You’re welcome @Dirty-Wife :slightly_smiling_face:

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I’m not a firm believer of whether it’s as bad as we’re told but having said that I know people who have been seriously ill from it! I believe it’s a legitimate virus though and although I’m not a fan of having the vaccine I will be having it! I like going abroad and I do really enjoy the pub after work on a Friday/Saturday so if it’s going to stop me doing a few things I enjoy not having it then I’ll take it!

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Thank you - I opted for ā€˜Yes’ after posing earlier as without my medical mishap meaning I probably can’t have the 2nd jab I’d choose the ā€˜Yes’ camp :+1:.

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I worked through the height of the first wave of the pandemic in England, assisting with food provision for the needy without any PPE, at much less than 2m, in contact with over 100 people per day. Since it became compulsory we have worn face masks but the nature of the work means it is impossible to keep 2m apart. If long term tests say the vaccine is safe then a longer term test says I am immune, despite being in the most vulnerable age/sex category. As a tester by trade, I know that by simple linear time limitations, the various covid vaccines haven’t been shown to be safe. Thalidomide was safe around the time I was born. Look it up if you are too young to know. I am so glad my mum didn’t take it for morning sickness. My sister was ill for days after taking the covid vaccine. My mum’s arm is still numb. The risk of suffering a blood clot and death is low, but it is happening - and it is fatal! At the risk of alienating most of the forum, why would I risk taking the Covid vaccine?

Some people who have caught Covid of the past year have been sadly serving in jobs that exposed them but the vast majority must have been flouting the rules for scientific prevention of Covid…
… or the science has been wrong, 100,000 times

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I agree with pretty much all of that! I was off work for the first 2 weeks of the first lock down and have worked ever since! As I’m a builder I’ve been in snd out of peoples homes and I’ve got to say that around 90% of people, old, young whatever haven’t asked me to wear a mask and really I’m not bothered about wearing one unless I have too! Shops etc! I’ve not contracted the virus snd I honestly believe I won’t either as I’m relatively fit and healthy! And I believe if I got it I’m strong enough to fight it! But with things like this I’m one of those who will go with the flow so to speak :man_shrugging:t3: I’ve only just been invited to get the vaccine and have had mixed reports on it! I know it’s me being a bit hypocritical but I’m willing to have it but I wouldn’t let my kids have it! How old are you if you don’t mind me asking? :grimacing:

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Old enough to have been born when Thalidomide was scientifically ā€˜safe’

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I’m early 40’s! Don’t think I’m high risk at all! Sorry about the age question :man_facepalming:t3::joy:

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Reading this makes me so sad.
This is not the place to go into detail but all the people who are unsure about this whole thing so are just ā€œgoing with the flowā€ are allowing us to continue to be controlled, by going along with it.

We are being scared into doing this. By being told that we won’t be able to do this and we won’t be able to do that if we don’t have it.
People are putting this into their bodies just because they have been told to, without even questioning it’s real need and safety.

It’s the same as the whole mask situation.
So many people are wearing them, even though they don’t really want to - just because they feel like they don’t have a choice. But actually, we do.

What will happen in a couple of years when we figure out all the damage that has been unnecessarily caused by wearing masks for hours on end and taking covid vaccinations without even questioning it.

@SteelA1 out of curiosity - what is the reason you wouldn’t let your kids have the vaccination?
If you think it’s not safe for them, do you think it’s safe for yourself?

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You don’t HAVE to - just say you’re exempt, and carry on with your day.

How sad is it that we walk down the street and don’t even get to see peoples faces, or smiles anymore.
And everyone thinks they’re doing great because they are following some ā€˜rules’ that don’t actually make any sense.

I’m sorry for the rant - I just wish that everyone knew their rights and did their own research before taking huge risks with their health, thinking they are doing good because they have been fooled.

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@Cupc8kes ive no doubt prolonged wearing of masks is bad for you! My Mrs pretty much has one on all day at work! I literally wear one when I nip in a shop and really that’s me just being considerate to others! My reason for my kids not having it is they’re young and healthy and think they really don’t need this in their body’s! I think kids should be rolling round in the mud and building up their immune systems naturally! I’m not big on conspiracy theory’s and have my own view on things which I normally keep to myself! I don’t read much about all this virus to be honest as I don’t into government things either! I’m happy plodding on with my own beliefs but do feel it necessary to just go with the flow now and then! I’m a serious overthinker and that is why I rarely look into things like this! Maybe I’m right maybe I’m wrong I don’t know :man_shrugging:t3: I do believe though that the people don’t really have a say in very much that goes on! I just like an easy life :man_facepalming:t3:

But in saying that I do do pretty much what I want! If I didn’t want to do something no one could persuade me otherwise! A little contradicting I know but :man_facepalming:t3::joy:

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@SteelA1 when this all started at the beginning of last year, I was actually concerned about the health of my loved ones or vulnerable people.
But as time went on, I realised more and more that the stuff we ate being fed - doesn’t add up.
So if there’s lies and things being covered up, I just feel that I can’t trust any of it.

I do believe that this virus is a type of flu, and just like any other flu - it has the potential to be fatal to certain/vulnerable people.
But we have all lived with the flu virus for many, many years - and the population is still thriving.
So why do we suddenly need to start being controlled.

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@Cupc8kes im a believer in it being similar to just a flu myself! I know people who have the flu jab every year snd are sick as a dog from it and others who aren’t affected at all! I’ve been offered it every year since I can remember as I have asthma but have never had it and never suffered with flu! I’d sooner fight it naturally if I got it! About the asthma too I had inhalers since about the age of 16 and always seemed to need them as I suffered terribly until about 5 years ago when I just stopped taking them! I’ve never felt like I needed them since :man_shrugging:t3: I know I say one thing then contradict it with something else but that’s just the way I am :joy::joy: I just try not to read into certain things too much or I find my mind wanders and I get myself all worked up :weary::man_facepalming:t3:

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I find what some people are saying to be really sad. You aren’t being controlled. If you want to see why this isn’t like flu, just look at Brazil. A lot of the things said above that people ā€œbelieveā€ are just wrong, and very dangerous. Sorry, but it is. I don’t want an argument, and I know I’m not going to change your minds, but I really felt it needed saying for anybody else that is reading this. My degree is in human biology, and I’ve been reading all the science about this (not what the papers say, but the actual peer reviewed science). We could actually eradicate this completely, like smallpox, if everyone took the vaccine. That is better than having people die each year like with flu, surely?

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Sorry been asleep, like @KinkyMira I also find reading the above very sad. I know 2 people who have died from Covid, one was elderly, the other was in his 50s with no underlying health conditions.

I have also been working full time throughout though certainly not front line and other than the inability to see my parents my life barely changed until I had a had reaction to the jab which I think made me one of the very lucky ones. Many people’s lives have been devastated by lock down but Covid is not the flu and if it can be wiped out with a vaccine like Smallpox why would you not have it?

The chances of getting blood clots are much higher from taking a combined hormonal contraceptive than from having the Covid jab yet woman are happy with that because they’d rather risk a small chance of blood clots than a high risk of getting pregnant so can see the clear advantage. How can the same not be said for the much smaller chances with the vaccine?

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I’m also for getting the vaccine. Although there’s all the chat about side effects (and I’ve seen how bad they are witnessing others), I’m still for getting it. If it’s going to get us back to normality faster, then I’m all for it.

@Goth_Girl Omg this is EXACTLY the words I was told, also back in January 20’. I took myself to the doctors as I had open sores in my mouth, a rash covering my legs, shortness of breath and basically feeling like something was reaaaaally wrong. I was then blue lighted for potential meningitis. When I got there, I was told it was unlikely meningitis, but a ā€˜virus’. I was off for 2 weeks and took me about 4/5 months to feel vaguely normal again. If that was covid, I never wish to feel like that again.

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I’ve written and deleted a few posts because confrontation is not my thing, but I can’t stay silent either.
Please understand that in every other pandemic in the world’s history before this one, there was no vaccine, no preventative treatment, and all we could do was isolate infected people and hope that that was enough to stop it spreading. Sometimes, this did in fact work, mostly because travel was slow and not available to most people, and population densities were much lower - but in general, highly infectious new viruses will just keep on going through unexposed populations until every single vulnerable person has caught it and either developed some immunity or died. There is no stopping it. All you can do is slow it down.
Read the histories of the First Nation peoples in the New World when the Europeans arrived, if you want to know what that looks like. They died in their hundreds of thousands, from the common cold, from flu, (and if that wasn’t enough, from being deliberately infected with smallpox).
By the way, Europeans interpreted the sensitivity of indigenous populations to diseases that had become little more than an inconvenience to Europeans (whose immune systems were by then primed to recognise them) as evidence of a kind of European moral superiority - which is completely bonkers, and this attitude is still prevalent today - make no mistake, what is happening in Brazil and India right now is exactly what would also be happening in the US and Europe, if we had NOT put huge resources into vaccine development and vaccinated as many people as possible, as quickly as possible.
Yes, there is some risk associated with the vaccine, as there is with all medical treatments. But some people seem to imagine that they have a choice over whether they will catch COVID-19 or not. They don’t. Some seem to think that a sore arm and a few days of feeling rubbish is evidence that the vaccine is dangerous when actually it is evidence that your immune system has responded to it - and that’s what you actually want to happen!
A small fraction of individuals do experience severe vaccine reactions (like @Peitho, sorry for your awful experience hun),typically as a result of preexisting health issues or dysregulated immune systems. Even for these people, however, vaccination is often medically advised because they are also the ones at highest risk of the severe form of COVID-19.
Human beings are really terrible at accurately assessing risk. I won’t bore you with the details but a lot of research has proved exactly that.
If you don’t want to be vaccinated, that’s fine. Your choice. But don’t base your decision on your neighbour’s bad reaction, conspiracy theories from the internet or your belief that SARS-CoV-2 is a form of flu (it isn’t).

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I’m currently waiting to book my second jab, and will definitely have it when it’s offered, I figure it’s worth having at least some protection than having none at all. My only worry is when we have to start commuting by trains back to the office, before the pandemic my trains, both overground and underground were horribly overcrowded, people disgustingly coughing and sneezing often in my face, I dread returning to this, unfortunately I can’t see this improving at all.

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Sorry but I don’t buy into any of this.

If this virus was THAT BAD - why was everyone allowed to go mixing with others over Christmas for a few days.
Was the virus not active at that point?

The virus has been so bad, that you have to wear a mask going in and out of places. But once you actually go in and sit down, then you can take your mask off and you’re perfectly safe?

If the virus was that bad - why didn’t we do this properly and have a complete lockdown until it has passed, like other countries did.

The virus is so bad, that during most of this time - people have still been able to travel in and out of our countries, spreading this deadly virus.

I don’t believe this ā€˜virus’ occurred naturally.
It was produced for a reason - and this is why people are dying.

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