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Ilikesilk · January 1, 2022, 5:38pm

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Mrs.John · January 2, 2022, 4:20pm

@SexySmoggy I’m bringing this here so I don’t get us told off for being off topic on the “when did you last have sex” thread.

I agree about being in the minority of couples still having plenty of sex after many years together.

Sadly most of my friends who are in long term relationships (make and female) don’t have regular sex for several reasons.

The thing I’ve noticed is there is often something else going on in the background, resentment, unresolved relationships issues, stress, lack of communication etc.

When I had a very stressful job my sex drive was almost non existent so can relate.

Sorry for ramblings of a horny welsh woman (say you were)

Knottydevil · January 2, 2022, 4:38pm

Spot on. I love this observation, @Mrs.John .
My wife and I work at our relationship constantly. It’s not always easy but it’s so well worth investing the time & energy.

SexySmoggy · January 2, 2022, 4:40pm

@Mrs.John
No problem in moving convo over as I get carried away and forget the forum rules , you keep me in check

Please no apologies as you are not rambling, it’s what the forums for - chatting, discussing problems, making new friends etc… now who’s rambling

I feel so lucky both of us have a similar sex drive, love sex, love trying new things and our sex life as a whole. I’m definitely a believer that sex gets better as you get older, especially if you have that special connection with your partner which it certainly sounds like you do.

For me communication is key at all times as like you I have a stressful job as does Missus Smoggy and think being supportive for each other is massive, I always know she is there no matter what and has got me through some difficult parts of my life, its only right I give the same back.

PS nothing wrong with being a very horny Welsh woman, Big hugs to you . Hope 2022 is a better year all round for everyone given the difficult last 2 pandemic years.

carzy · January 3, 2022, 4:51pm

Need help what is the sexiest thing you have taken abroad and where did you pack it hand or cargo

AWB1955 · December 27, 2021, 12:25pm

@Saffron18 merry Christmas hopebyou have enjoyed your festivities

AWB1955 · December 27, 2021, 12:31pm

@Vickybi Hi Merry Christmas what is a Sybian

Saffron18 · December 27, 2021, 1:13pm

I did thanks, Merry Christmas to you too.

AWB1955 · December 27, 2021, 5:59pm

Sounds good any pictures of it

Vickybi · December 27, 2021, 7:25pm

Look it up

AWB1955 · December 27, 2021, 9:04pm

I did

njp · December 28, 2021, 6:59pm

i think it’s important to make sure all of our lovehoney friends are doing OK in these difficult times.

So, the question is, how are you feeling…

Craig1234 · December 28, 2021, 8:05pm

Alive and well

steve19 · December 28, 2021, 10:54pm

I’m feeling ok tonight, pleased not having to go to work tomorrow.

rockstar · December 29, 2021, 8:36am

Overfed and bloated.

Knight1119 · December 25, 2021, 4:08pm

Thanks Jilly,

Unfortunately it’s been rubbish this afternoon, totally fed up.

WillC · December 25, 2021, 5:00pm

Sorry to hear that, big hugs to you

KinkyMira · December 25, 2021, 5:28pm

So sorry to hear that @Knight1119

CurvyJilly · December 25, 2021, 6:01pm

Awwww @Knight1119

I guess it was what you expected though?

Hopefully you got something nice…back to normal soon.

Hugs

Knight1119 · December 25, 2021, 10:12pm

Thanks Jilly.

Yes that’s true, it was another crap Christmas Day, just hoping Tomorrow goes better.

I hope you’re ok and having a nice time.